Jasmine777 Posted March 18, 2008 Posted March 18, 2008 I have a big question for all guys out there! I went on four really wonderful dates with a really nice guy and out of the blue he stopped calling and texting me! For one whole week he texted me everyday several times and invited me on four very nice dates that week and then when I texted him to say thank you for the previous evening and that I had fun, he never returned my text. I wonder what I did wrong! I finally met someone that I had fun with and that could have been my type! We had all the same interests and we had just a ball of fun together so why would he ignore me after we had so much fun together? I do know that his friend and him were in competition over me so could that have anything to do with him disappearing? His friend was very mad at him for going on some dates with me. I am just curious to see what any of you would say about a guy coming on really strong but then leaving the picture right away. Thank you!
iwish Posted March 18, 2008 Posted March 18, 2008 just relax, how long ago did you text him without a reply?
Author Jasmine777 Posted March 18, 2008 Author Posted March 18, 2008 two weeks ago... he texted me all week long and then nothing! How disapointing...
iwish Posted March 18, 2008 Posted March 18, 2008 hmm, that is a long time.. well it's a shame but it's better sooner than later, trust me on that
Author Jasmine777 Posted March 18, 2008 Author Posted March 18, 2008 Yeah your right, it is better now then later. It just felt like I did something wrong but it is probably him.. Oh well
norajane Posted March 18, 2008 Posted March 18, 2008 For one whole week he texted me everyday several times and invited me on four very nice dates that week Four dates in ONE week? I think he's moved on to the next girl on his list. Maybe he dates everyone for a week and then moves to the next girl he meets.
saddad1 Posted March 19, 2008 Posted March 19, 2008 (edited) Perhaps the friend thing is a big deal to him. If its a really close friend of his they may have just agreed for none of them to see you. Two close friends of mine "feel in love/lust" after the same girl and it very nearly destroyed their 10 year friendship. However, if it was this simple why couldn't he have explained it to you? He could have let you know at least. Did you sleep with him after your last date togther? If you hadn't slept with him before and did then maybe thats all he was after? If you didn't sleep with him at all maybe thats not what he was after and decided to move on? Maybe he has lost his cell phone? But if he knows where you live he should have called round to tell you. Edited March 19, 2008 by saddad1
carhill Posted March 19, 2008 Posted March 19, 2008 Just so you know...real "nice guys" don't compete with their friends for girls. If you had sex with him, he's definitely not a nice guy Or, did you mean nice as in good-looking?
Nightwolf_58 Posted March 19, 2008 Posted March 19, 2008 (edited) I just had something similar happen to me where this girl text'ed me all the time everyday for about a month, then all of a sudden nothing for almost a week. Turned out her phone was broke and she just couldn't find the time to get a new one, or at least that's the story I got. Two weeks though? Hard to say what's gong on. Can you at least call him or e-mail him and see what's up? Text messages suck because you can't see the sincerity in their eyes and in their voice. Edited March 19, 2008 by Nightwolf_58
Author Jasmine777 Posted March 19, 2008 Author Posted March 19, 2008 No I did not sleep with him but we did kiss. We left things on good terms it seemed but when I thanked him in a text message for the previous night, he never responded. Three days later I texted him again saying hi and wanted to see how he was doing and he still did not respond! Now another funny thing is....my friend called him to ask him a question and he hung up on her for no reason! Is he anti-girls? My friend and I laughed and said, he must be gay!
carhill Posted March 19, 2008 Posted March 19, 2008 What was the question and did she get it out before he hung up?
Author Jasmine777 Posted March 19, 2008 Author Posted March 19, 2008 What happened was she called him to ask him if she could park in a particular parking spot downtown without getting a ticket. His friend answered the phone and she was like tell him to get on the phone I have a question for him and all of a sudden there was a click! She called back and left a message and he never called her back! I find it kind of funny!
MIKE2579 Posted March 20, 2008 Posted March 20, 2008 In the past, after a long relationship, I would date due to not wanting to be alone and that sort of thing. But then the ex would come back into the picture, and then at that point no explanation is needed. I would just drop it, due to we haven't had that type of relationship anyways. If you only hung out with him for a few weeks, then he must not have fealt he owed you any explanation. This is just my take on it. No one likes breaking things off. So its best to just avoid them in some peoples cases.
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