uluru Posted March 18, 2008 Posted March 18, 2008 I met this guy online and we emailed for a couple of months before finally meeting last month. The date was great and he asked me out on a second date the same evening. As he travels abroad a lot, often at short notice, we have not seen each other again since the first date a month ago. However, we have been in touch via email and sms. He keeps saying he really wants to see me again, but because of his busy work schedule this has not happend yet. Last week he send me an email saying he would call me at the weekend to arrange our date, but he did not call. He used to log on to the dating website every day, just like me. But he has not been online since Friday, so I am assuming that something came up and he had to travel abroad. Now, I understand that he might be busy, but shouldn't he at least find the time to send an email to say that he is busy? Or do guys just not bother with that? Should I send him a message? But what should I say and when should I do it without seeming clingy.
sedona Posted March 18, 2008 Posted March 18, 2008 Trying to think of what I would do...You know, couldn't you just ask him out yourself? Say there's some restaurant you're been dying to try and suggest an evening? The most direct way is just to give him a call -- then you'll get an answer right away. Otherwise, email/SMS...he'll have to answer somehow, giving you some idea of what's going on. If he never gets back to you...well, that's an answer too.
LoveLace Posted March 19, 2008 Posted March 19, 2008 Part of me gets the impression that he's avoiding going online because he knows he stiffed ya, and/or thinks you might be angry/upset. I say give him a call, with the purpose of saying hi how are you doing? If he doesn't call back, I'd say that's your answer, because no matter how busy, he's got 5 min.
Prodigal Princess Posted March 19, 2008 Posted March 19, 2008 If he wanted to see you, he would contact you. The ball is in his court. Simple as that.
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