wvhenson Posted March 18, 2008 Posted March 18, 2008 I have been seeing someone for a little over a year now. The thing is is that they are living with someone that they have been with for like 3 yrs now , BUT the relationship is tough. THey live together, share things like possessions etc. She is very unhappy with him. She has been. Thats what lead me and her together. Me and her are wonderful together. She wants to be with me she says. Me and her have NO issues. Always enjoy each other and never had issues that are bad. She still lives with him because we just havent gotten a place together yet. We always talk of it, but just havent done it yet. So the other day her guy finds her cell bill and got all over her for staying in touch with me. She calls me and is just livid. She is like "its hard living the double life. We dont seem to be going anyplace with this". And she mentioned something about giving her time to think etc. This happened once before and we got back. She is very loving and I do so much for her to help her. She knows Im crazy about her and she knows I am. She and him have just a stagnant relationship. He isnt really good to her and never helps her. I just wonder if living with him and all that plus the having to keep me quiet can take a toll on someone where they need a break or just seemingly end things to calm the storm with the guy she lives with. I mean, I think she did it because he was always on her about me, she always had to sneak around,etc....I want to live with her and get things going. There is no issue with us. But she always tells me that she wants away from him. I just wonder if I should just tell her I still care deeply for her and not put pressure on her. I havent about moving in with her. I waited til she was on her feet with a new job,etc. I love her so much and she knows I do and she knows I help her with anything. It just hurts alot hearing the break up talk, but it held no substance really to it. She did this once before, but when things calmed down she always wanted me back. I just wondered if dating someone thats in a bad relationship causes this. I assume that having to account everytime the phone rings or anytime she goes out having to be asked where she was, who she was with,etc..can take a toll where they get scared and have to break off for a bit? Any insight?
aln186 Posted March 18, 2008 Posted March 18, 2008 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t147224/ Why the new thread?
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