BlackAdam15 Posted March 18, 2008 Posted March 18, 2008 I'm in college, and I see girls that i find attractive all the time. But I'm so afraid of rejection that I just let them walk on by and hate myself for it later. Can anyone tell me what a good conversation starter is ? And how do I will myself to go and say hello ?
Kiss Dont Miss Posted March 18, 2008 Posted March 18, 2008 Adam, come up to her and begin a common talk. Something like: Hi! How are you doing? Would yoг love to have tea (whatever)? Don't forget about smiles. That's what my male friends would say to girls they like. Best of luck! Cheers, Kiss dont Miss
Author BlackAdam15 Posted March 24, 2008 Author Posted March 24, 2008 Every time I want to go and walk up to a girl, I can only think to myself: What if i fail? What if she thinks I'm stupid? What if I trip and fall on the way over? What if everyone sees me get rejected? What if she has a boyfriend? Tragic isn't it ???
Green Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 This is a hard fear for me to relate to. But alot of men have it. What state are you in.... and if you go to a big school, you should give the name
AussieJack Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 I'm in college, and I see girls that i find attractive all the time. But I'm so afraid of rejection that I just let them walk on by and hate myself for it later. Can anyone tell me what a good conversation starter is ? And how do I will myself to go and say hello ? You need to read some of my tips on how to 'open' women in cold approaches. It is not hard once typuy get the hang of it. Your fear is based on the belief that a woman's opinion of you is important and if she does not like you the sky will fall. Well let me give you two TRUTHS here which may sound paradoxical until you undersatnd how women think. !. Truly being INDIFFERENT to how a woman feels about you will INCREASE her attraction to you. 2. Rejection is BETTER than regret, The hens here will ridicule that first statement BUT it is still true never the less.
Lunar Sonata Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 I used to be just like you. Exactly like you. I'll tell you something right now. Something that everyone realizes when they talk to/ask somebody out for the first time. Wanna hear it? Ok, just a little closer... the... secret... is... as of now... SHE AIN'T ALL THAT!! That's a fact. You don't know her and she doesn't know you. You both lead different lives. And to tell you quite frankly, if you're not ready to talk to her, then it's probably best if you don't. You should know your own damn worth and once you do, it won't even be a question of why you're not approaching. It would be because you don't freaking feel like it! Best of luck.
Green Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 yeah good point. Don't put the pussy on a pedestal. If you go to a college with over 20 thousand people, or depending on where you live hot chicks are probably a dime a dozen... that means theres no scarcity.
Balthazar Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 Every time I want to go and walk up to a girl, I can only think to myself: What if i fail? What if she thinks I'm stupid? What if I trip and fall on the way over? What if everyone sees me get rejected? What if she has a boyfriend? Tragic isn't it ??? Adam, here is what is going through the chick's mind: That guy us cute.. He is looking at me.. Yippeee I hope he comes over and speaks to me... What's taking him so long... Is he gay?... What a pussy of a man... The only thing worse that hitting on a chick, is not hitting on her. JUST DO IT!
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