BlackAdam15 Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 I'm in love with a girl. We talk about things all the time. She's beautiiful and kind and sweet... and she's my best friend's girlfriend. I feel guilty, I know I shouldn't feel this way but I look at my friend with envy. Every time they kiss each other I feel kinda dead inside. I feel so selfish, I hate myself for feeling like this. Jealousy is like a self-sustaining fire. I went on a date over the weekend to try and shake the feeling, but when I saw her at school today it came back. Please tell me I'm not evil and that this is normal or that it will go away or something. Link to post Share on other sites
Author BlackAdam15 Posted March 24, 2008 Author Share Posted March 24, 2008 So, I guess I must be the only person who has ever felt this way since none of you have aanything to say about it. Oh well Link to post Share on other sites
vivrantflo Posted March 24, 2008 Share Posted March 24, 2008 Whats going on man..not everyone catches posts on here.. if you don't get a response, make another one. As for your situation... It's understandible that you can be attracted to someone that's unavailable... but that's what she is.. unavailable. Do you know how many single, beautiful women are out there for you to hit on?? Just continue to go out on dates, and you'll meet someone that will steal your heart.. and she'll be all yours.. I've witnessed many friendships being destroyed by guys not respecting certain boundaries.. so don't entertain any thoughts. She's your best friend's woman, so you should be looking at her like a sister.. that how I look at my boys' women.. Keep dating around... and a word of advice.. try not to talk to her one on one as often as you were.. there's no sense in encouraging feelings that you shouldnt have. Respect your best friend, his woman, AND yourself. You're not evil, otherwise you wouldnt feel guilty about your feelings.. Live your life man! Go out and look for Mrs. Right! Link to post Share on other sites
LuCidiTy Posted March 24, 2008 Share Posted March 24, 2008 yeah what he said, plus look around you...there's probably someone feeling the very same way about you that you're not seeing because you're so enthralled with someone who's not available. as to the best friend part, think how your friend would feel if he knew...you'd probably lose his trust and respect and friendship. what's worth more to you? it's hard, but try to feel happy for him and not jealous...force yourself and eventually that's how you'll really feel. Link to post Share on other sites
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