sptu Posted March 18, 2008 Posted March 18, 2008 hey to everyone!!!! i am finally back!!!(i went to meet him). so!!!we met, we had very very very good time, and we decided to keep in touch but not to be a couple till june. (on june i will go there for studies). the point is that we havent lived together for more than 6 days and so, we will check whether we can be together or not, on june. i am happy, because we had many conversations and he said that he want me but he dont want anymore distance relationship. what i have to do now, is to be very very cool and not to press him...right?!?!?!
Lyssa Posted March 18, 2008 Posted March 18, 2008 Yup, best would be to take it slowly and just see how things go in June. I'm happy you had a very very very good time! I had an amazing time with BF in his country recently too. Good luck and keep us posted!
Author sptu Posted March 18, 2008 Author Posted March 18, 2008 well...he is not my boyfriend as he dont want to be in a relationship...there are so many days till the june....
Author sptu Posted March 19, 2008 Author Posted March 19, 2008 well!!!!yesterday he saw me online on msn and he signed in to speak for a little. we said our news, and that!!!today nothing... does anyone have any idea of how to handle this situation?!?!?!?!should i be cute with him!?!?no?!?should i be honest and say that i already missed him etc?!!?i dont know, i am afraid because if i do sth wrong he might remind me that we are not a couple and then i will have destroyed all the good situation...
babycheeks Posted March 20, 2008 Posted March 20, 2008 honestly , id just be his friend and not get my feelings involved or leave him alone. He doesnt want a distance relationship with u he already stated that. So dont get ur feelings into something that will never be.. just move on before u get hurt cause ur falling and missing him isnt good. Try to be friends nothing more! GO out and date!
Author sptu Posted March 20, 2008 Author Posted March 20, 2008 yes but June is not that far....no?!?!?
Lyssa Posted March 20, 2008 Posted March 20, 2008 Why don't you keep your options open for now? Time is passing through real fast, yes but June is still far off. Anything, ANYTHING can happen in 2 months. He's probably keeping his options open... and you should too.
marlena Posted March 20, 2008 Posted March 20, 2008 I agree with the others. No talk about feelings unless he asks and then just say that you like him. Take it nice and slow and let him do the same. June is not that far off. Then, you can see how things go when you are close to one another and then again, don't rush things. Take all the time in the world to get to know him better before you invest emotionally. The best relationships take time to blossom. These are the ones that last longer, too.
Author sptu Posted March 20, 2008 Author Posted March 20, 2008 yes but i am afraid. i mean if till June we contact just to say our news, we pretend to be friends??? and ok we contact very frequently as we both have msn and we are meeting there. but by no listening something sweet, i am feeling strange and not confident about whether he wants me or not. when we met, he was saying so many nice things and i want to listen to them again and again..
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