ashieannie Posted March 18, 2008 Posted March 18, 2008 Here is the deal I have been broken up with my bf for almost 4 monthes or so. I have had not contact with him since then, none what so ever. I truly feel like I'm over him, because I believe if someone came into my life now I would move on. But I still have this urge to contact the ex, I'm a genuine person, and I want to know how he is, how his uncle is that was parlyzed a couple mos. before we broke up, how his neice and nephews are doing. Is that wrong? Should I or Shouldn't I? If so how do I contact him phone, email, facebook, text? Thanks ahead of time! Ashley
Scorpio13c Posted March 18, 2008 Posted March 18, 2008 Hi Ash, He may not want you to contact him, as he may not be as over the relationship as you say you are. But if your heart is set on it, i'd reccomend e-mail, so as to soften any shock he may have if he isn't expecting it. Good luck! Scorp
Author ashieannie Posted March 18, 2008 Author Posted March 18, 2008 I still don't know if I should or shouldn't...if so I really don't know what to say and what not, more than likely he will just ignore it but hey it might make my mind stop thinking about contacting him! Who knows, more advice would be super!
Scorpio13c Posted March 18, 2008 Posted March 18, 2008 I still don't know if I should or shouldn't...if so I really don't know what to say and what not, more than likely he will just ignore it but hey it might make my mind stop thinking about contacting him! Who knows, more advice would be super! A Wise person once told me & i now adhere to their advice: "If you're unsure about doing something now, DON'T!" "Why the rush" - Me Scorp
Author ashieannie Posted March 18, 2008 Author Posted March 18, 2008 What kind of things do you ask them without being to prying and what not. All my other breakups I didn't care if I contacted them before. Can I ask about his family?
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