Porter_26 Posted March 18, 2008 Posted March 18, 2008 Maybe I just need to vent, but I have to let it out before I explode. My girlfriend and I have been living together for roughly 5 years now and we're both quite busy in our lives. She's always known that I'm a very sexually active person but doesn't seem to care. The best example of this was this past weekend. Friday night she was out with friends while I worked on our house, when she got home we talked for a while and went to bed, without any action. Saturday she had events during the day and I made the trip to see one of them before returning to my work at home. That night I spent 6 hours in a bar celebrating her day, sober and then driving her home where she promptly fell asleep. Sunday I took her shopping, and out for dinner. At dinner I told her that I was in need of something and she said that could be taken care of. We had a great time at dinner and returned home. I had some work to do for myself, followed by a couple of hours of work for her company (for free of course) and shortly after she went to bed, leaving me again. This seems to be a repeating situation. We do have sex a couple times a week, but I would like more. I've tried to express my feelings about the whole situation but she makes is out to be my fault, or at least that is the way I take it. I never ask her to do anything for me, I'm quite self sufficient, but I feel like I'm constantly trying to make her happy without anything in return. I'm sick of being brushed off as "too horny" and it's really starting to affect me mentally. Maybe it is me, just looking for some opinions. Thanks everyone, you're all great people from what I've seen.
carhill Posted March 18, 2008 Posted March 18, 2008 She's training you. Do not marry her. Tell her in no uncertain terms what you have wanted, repeatedly, then.... Break up with her and go do something for yourself. She'll find out what she pushed away. You sound like a smart, hard-working guy. You'll be in demand
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