loveinlife Posted March 17, 2008 Posted March 17, 2008 My exgf recently was hanging with a new guy when i saw her at the club with the guy all over her. She used to be very conservative and stays home a lot and study. Her father passed away and i was there for her through the tragic incident since two months ago. I provided her with lots of attention and even gave her money to spend bc she didn't work and with the passing of the father she quited her masters in nursing because she rather spend more time at home and is too depressed to study further eventhough she could be making 100k a year as a nurse practitioner. I was with her through thick and thin. Now she wants me to move on. Her father died from suicide because of arguements with the mom. We argue quite a bit myself and her. I still care about her but she doesn't want to talk to me. how would you feel if you were her? her life has changed almost 180 degrees since her dad died. right now im giving her space. she told me she hates her family and is angry with the world. i feel sorry for her and want to help her. but she doesnt want to talk to me. =( we were suppose to get married before we broke up.
iwish Posted March 17, 2008 Posted March 17, 2008 i wish i knew mate, who knows what goes through their heads.. you have to try and be strong for yourself, it sucks that they don't want to talk to you.. but there really is nothing we can do .. i like to think that she will come round one day and mine too, but who can say?
Author loveinlife Posted March 17, 2008 Author Posted March 17, 2008 i wish i knew mate, who knows what goes through their heads.. you have to try and be strong for yourself, it sucks that they don't want to talk to you.. but there really is nothing we can do .. i like to think that she will come round one day and mine too, but who can say? I see your point. I need to relax a bit and refocus on myself again. so i can feel better about myself.
vivrantflo Posted March 17, 2008 Posted March 17, 2008 there is NO way to figure out what a woman is thinking.. especially when 90% of the time THEY don't even know what they're thinking/doing/feeling. I know you feel bad for her.. but... she has a man.. AND she told you to leave her alone... NC.. she knows you care about her, so that's all that counts right?? Try your best to move on with your life.
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