Author guy.lepage Posted March 19, 2008 Author Posted March 19, 2008 I'm a little puzzled as when you posted on the other site a short while ago you were married and were concerned about your wifes actions towards a client of hers. Guy Lepage is actually a well known comedian here so I'm not surprised that someone else has been using the same handle. I'm definitely NOT married!
Author guy.lepage Posted March 19, 2008 Author Posted March 19, 2008 Just when I thought it couldn't get worse, I just went into her Facebook account and found a message from her to him saying that she looks forward to their next adventure. This may sound ok in English but in French it sounds terrible. Unless she skipped her class there is no way they could've already met behind my back.
Bryanp Posted March 19, 2008 Posted March 19, 2008 I think this pretty much tells you what you already know. She is at the very least is emotionally cheating on you. She has now contacted him. She is looking forward to another adventure? It seems pretty obvious she wants him and is hot for him. Now you know what kind of a girlfriend you have. I am sorry but she is now playing you for a fool. She is shoping around hoping to get involved with this guy. This is how she treats you after being involved with you for so long? She has shown you by her actions that is looking to trade you in. She does not respect you. If you do not respect yourself then who will? You deserve better than this and I think you already know this also.
Author guy.lepage Posted March 19, 2008 Author Posted March 19, 2008 I know you guys are right 100%. I also know I am the "weak" type though, the kind of loser who isn't strong enough to dump his girlfriend. She is the only long term relationship I've ever had (same for her) and I would be totally lost without her. Yes this sounds pathetic but I think I will need more evidence to really cut her off. I am in pain though and I can't believe this is happening to me. I am still hoping that these are all unfortunate coincidences though.
MrsTattie Posted March 19, 2008 Posted March 19, 2008 how about next time you guys you smack a girl 2 times at the butt lmao see how she likes it:-)
BetrayedMM Posted March 19, 2008 Posted March 19, 2008 Just when I thought it couldn't get worse, I just went into her Facebook account and found a message from her to him saying that she looks forward to their next adventure. This may sound ok in English but in French it sounds terrible. Unless she skipped her class there is no way they could've already met behind my back. That pretty much sounds like sex in English. They(cheaters) will steal time to have their 'adventures'. Confront her. If she squirms or explodes, you have your answer. What is your gut telling you? It won't lie to you. Weak? What can I say, when the wolf knocks at your door, you find out who you are. Man up, because you have to for your own sake.
Author guy.lepage Posted March 19, 2008 Author Posted March 19, 2008 My gut feeling was telling me that she may have been attracted to him like I've been attracted to a number of women in my life (without taking action). I never thought she would actually act on it though. Not sure what "adventure" means in English but in French, it means "affair". I think I'm going to stay with my parents for a while. I feel like an absolute loser.
BetrayedMM Posted March 20, 2008 Posted March 20, 2008 http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/adventure In the context of secret contact between a man and woman, well, it sounds pretty bad. Did she post this in English or French?
Author guy.lepage Posted March 20, 2008 Author Posted March 20, 2008 http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/adventure In the context of secret contact between a man and woman, well, it sounds pretty bad. Did she post this in English or French? My GF is bilingual but her background is French. The guy doesn't speak much French so the message was in English. Since my GF usually thinks in French, I think her use of the word "adventure" is as bad as if it were in French (aventure = affair). I've been desperately trying to reach her tonight but her phone is off. That's just great.
Author guy.lepage Posted March 20, 2008 Author Posted March 20, 2008 I believe she had classes tonight but it's supposed to be over by now.
JustBreathe Posted March 20, 2008 Posted March 20, 2008 We all feel like losers when we're cheated on. But you aren't the loser. You just trusted her and that's what you're supposed to do when you're in a committed relationship.
Belkin Posted March 20, 2008 Posted March 20, 2008 I also know I am the "weak" type though, the kind of loser who isn't strong enough to dump his girlfriend. She is the only long term relationship I've ever had (same for her) and I would be totally lost without her. Yes this sounds pathetic but I think I will need more evidence to really cut her off. What do you mean you're not strong enough to dump her? From what I've read so far, it seems like she already dumped you, in actions if not in words. But if you still believe in her and think it might all be "coincidences," you should confront her about it.
Author guy.lepage Posted March 20, 2008 Author Posted March 20, 2008 Well I confronted her with it and she started to yell at me, called me a jerk and hung up. She told me I always know where she is and there is no way she could've cheated on me. I tried calling her back only to be greeted by more insults. Now that's a terrific way of starting the long Easter weekend.
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