confused 23 Posted March 17, 2008 Posted March 17, 2008 I have been going out with my Gf for 3 yrs. The relationship was going down hill due to us arguing all the time about stupid things. Two weeks ago she sed she wanted a brake. She told me she wants to do her own thing and concertrate on school. she really wantes to move when shes grads. from college. While we were talking about the brake she sed she for the past 3 yrs of us being together she pic us being married... but she didnt have the heart or strength to work on the relationship right now... when i left her house she sed we can still be friends...... so im wondering what does this brake mean ... and what should i do should i wait for her or do u think the brake thing is another way of saying its over..... and i havent seen/ heard from her since the start of the brake 2 weeks ago
wonderinwhatsup Posted March 17, 2008 Posted March 17, 2008 Was there a specified time period that the break would last? If not then I'm afraid to say it, but it may truly be over between you two. The only way to know would be to sit down and talk to her.
eagle5 Posted March 18, 2008 Posted March 18, 2008 I agree, that sounds suspiciously like it's over, sorry to say .
xpaperxcutx Posted March 18, 2008 Posted March 18, 2008 A break means she wants to emotionally detach herself from you and perhaps date other people. She's having doubts about being with you and doesn't want to drag it on and not see what other options she has. So instead of actually ending the relationship she's taking a "break" to keep you on the side, knowing you'll take her back. Sorry to say, I don't think you should wait around for her. No matter how emotionally invested you are, you can't just sit and wait for her to come around. She will when she wants to. But right now, you're only gonna be her puppet if you pine after her.
Cannondale Posted March 18, 2008 Posted March 18, 2008 I've never had to go through a "break" fortunately. I just always broke up for good with my ex gf's. Imo "breaks" are a very selfish thing to do. In most cases it's just so the other person can date around and if it doesn't work out with someone else, they can then come back to you, thus making you second best. Honestly bud, considering the fact that she hasn't been in contact with you, I would start moving on, just doesn't sound all that great man.
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