THEBIGARC Posted March 17, 2008 Posted March 17, 2008 I have finally accepted that my marriage is truly over. The last little hope of saving it is gone. I have moved out of her house. She has agreed to sell our new house. We are yet to move in it. She is seeing the OM and now I need not know about any of it. Thanks to the advice of the great people on this site, I have remained somewhat calm with her. Once the new house is sold I can truly move on. I am living with family members for now. They are great. I will talk nice to her only about our son and the selling of the new house. I told her I am getting a storage unit and moving all of my things into it. I have asked only one thing of her, not to bring the OM around my son. I will do the same if and when I start dating again. My days are filled with ups and downs, but I am no longer hoping to get back with her. I feel kind of relieved. Still hurts, but I know it will get better! Thank you all again! I just hope she will remain civil. She has changed her mind a few times since this all started a month ago.
joybean72 Posted March 17, 2008 Posted March 17, 2008 Good for you!!! Scary to do it, but probably for the best! Take back your power!!! Good luck to you!
Gunny376 Posted March 17, 2008 Posted March 17, 2008 One word ~ FREEDOM Freedom from want Freedom from need! Freedom to go and come as you want! When you want? As you want? Freedom to do as you need? FREEDOM!
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