joybean72 Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 So I called my lawyer's office last week to find out WTF is going on since I filed the papers a month & a half ago! The lady that is handling my case says, "Oh hello! He's been served (Apparently last week)....and you are not going to believe what happened! We've been been talking about it at the office all week!" I'm thinkin'...yeah, I'll believe it! She procedes to tell me how it all went down: The process server walks in to the bar. Asks the bartender (she said waitress, but pretty it's one of the bartenders) who my stbx is. Well then this stupid bitch goes and tells my stbx that the guy is looking to serve his ass! F%#KTARD takes off out of the bar!!!....With the server in hot pursuit!!! Get's in his truck...server gets in his car...and apparently the bitch from the bar throws herself in front of the process servers car so F%$ktard can get away!!! (I'm serious...this is how the lady is telling me this! With the exception of using the bad words of course!;)) So anyway...F#@ktard is hauling ass trying to get away from this server guy...but this guy isn't letting up. Driving through the desert, down streets, etc....Not exactly sure how long this lasted...but she said a while! She told me the guy had to practically run F@%ktard off the road to make him stop. Then when the guy handed him the papers, ****tard is laughing like it was a big joke and tells the guy, "I knew I was getting served anyway!" (WHAT F*%KING EVA DUMB@SS!!!) The lady said they have been talking about it all week because they have never had someone act like that! Ever! She couldn't figure it out....I told her, "Well now you see why I felt like I had to hire a lawyer! This is what I am dealing with." She says, "Oh yeah!" I said, "He's on drugs so god knows what he's thinkin'! And he's the one that WANTED this divorce!" Then she says, "And he must have something going on with that waitress because she practically got herself killed trying to protect him!" I just said, "I don't know...but it sounds about right!" What a dumb-f#ck! It only makes him look bad! I can't for the life of me figure out WHY he would be ditching it when he has been wondering where they were!? Makes no sense. All I hope is that this helps my case in some way! LOL! Then today I get a Fed Ex from him regarding our taxes from last year and how they need information about my daughter...and it needs to be done within 30 days. WTF?!? Oh...if it benefits him, I need to jump! Is this how it's going to be? I will talk to my accountant first! So now it's HIS turn to do all the paperwork! Oh...and another thing, the Fed Ex that he sent was mailed from Laughlin Nevada...(where his kids live)the return address is where the OW lives, but then also found proof of that Vegas cell phone #...so I dunno where the f#ck he's living! LOL! Maybe homewrecking whore already dumped his broke ass and he had nowhere else to go but back to his first wife! LMFAO!!! That would be hilarious!!! They HATED eachother! "GAME ON F#%KER!"
Mr. Lucky Posted March 17, 2008 Posted March 17, 2008 I've seen some angry stbexW's, but you're right up there near the top. If your goal is to get on with your life, shedding some of that hostility would be a first step. He doesn't sound like he's worth all the emotional energy you're giving him... Mr. Lucky
Author joybean72 Posted March 17, 2008 Author Posted March 17, 2008 Mr. Lucky thank you for your response. I am trying to work on the anger part.....sorry if I scared ya! LOL. (Just vent on here!) I have basically had to apply NC in dealing with him for my own sanity. I'm much more mellow in "real life"...actually trying to take my power back however I can. He's just fought me every step of the way and he wanted this divorce! It boggles my mind why he would want to make this harder than it is.
Mr. Lucky Posted March 17, 2008 Posted March 17, 2008 I'm much more mellow in "real life"...actually trying to take my power back however I can. He's just fought me every step of the way and he wanted this divorce! It boggles my mind why he would want to make this harder than it is. You certainly seem smart enough to know that focusing on what he does is not the way to empowerment. Having been through it myself, separation and divorce is a process that simply has to play out. The legal process actually tries to slow it down in hopes that the parties will reconcile (not much chance in your case ) and leave the system. In your case, the best revenge would be living a great life and, down the road, finding yourself in a great relationship... Mr. Lucky
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