Kman21 Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 Me and this girl been together for two years, she is now a freshmen in college and i am a senior in high school, we are both the same age, shes just 4 months older, ever she began college, she told me that she was confused, then she said her feelings came back again, those feelings stayed for about a month, then she told me that she realized it was a high school crush when she started liking another guy, now they have been together for one month already, i asked her what happened with us? and she told me she views life differently now and shes and adult, she also tells me that she sees me as close since we have been together for two years now the thing is that we both had and still have an email we both share so we can message each other, this email is used strictly for messaging each other, the thing is that she still checks it all the time, every 45 min or so.How i know she read it? She deletes the email after she reads. She told me that i didnt do anything to push her away and it was just a high school crush and it just faded away and wasnt attracted to me anymore. I asked her why shes was still checking, she said i am just being nice,and also asked will our email ever be open? she said yes NOW WTF THIS MEANS?? HELP!! NEED SOME VIEWS ON THIS!!
aln186 Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 It means it's time to move on and let her go. I went through almost the same exact thing when my HS sweetheart and I went off to separate colleges. Things change, new groups of friends, lots of guys/girls and if it's not true love, you begin to wonder... hmm, shouldn't I be exploring relationships while I'm here? Looking back, we didn't know anything... we thought we were in love. I can clearly see now that we weren't and that it probably should have ended way before then. Not saying your situation is the same but she obviously wants to explore new possibilities and I think it's probably healthy for her to do so at this stage in her life. Move on with your life... drop all contact with her and see what else is out there. You're still young... life still goes on. Good luck.
Author Kman21 Posted March 17, 2008 Author Posted March 17, 2008 Me and this girl been together for two years, she is now a freshmen in college and i am a senior in high school, we are both the same age, shes just 4 months older, ever she began college, she told me that she was confused, then she said her feelings came back again, those feelings stayed for about a month, then she told me that she realized it was a high school crush when she started liking another guy, now they have been together for one month already, i asked her what happened with us? and she told me she views life differently now and shes and adult, she also tells me that she sees me as close since we have been together for two years now the thing is that we both had and still have an email we both share so we can message each other, this email is used strictly for messaging each other, the thing is that she still checks it all the time, every 45 min or so.How i know she read it? She deletes the email after she reads. She told me that i didnt do anything to push her away and it was just a high school crush and it just faded away and wasnt attracted to me anymore. I asked her why shes was still checking, she said i am just being nice,and also asked will our email ever be open? she said yes NOW WTF THIS MEANS?? HELP!! NEED SOME VIEWS ON THIS!! The thing this guys that i cant stand her with being with someone else, or let alone, they have sex, it just kills me to even mention that, i mean i rather die than have that feeling, is this normal of what i am feeling?
dfreeman Posted March 17, 2008 Posted March 17, 2008 The thing this guys that i cant stand her with being with someone else, or let alone, they have sex, it just kills me to even mention that, i mean i rather die than have that feeling, is this normal of what i am feeling? Yes, I refer to that as the "S#i+ Eating Feeling" ~ I ain't ever ate crap, but I'm sure it feels like the first few weeks of my breakup.
Author Kman21 Posted March 17, 2008 Author Posted March 17, 2008 Me and this girl been together for two years, she is now a freshmen in college and i am a senior in high school, we are both the same age, shes just 4 months older, ever she began college, she told me that she was confused, then she said her feelings came back again, those feelings stayed for about a month, then she told me that she realized it was a high school crush when she started liking another guy, now they have been together for one month already, i asked her what happened with us? and she told me she views life differently now and shes and adult, she also tells me that she sees me as close since we have been together for two years now the thing is that we both had and still have an email we both share so we can message each other, this email is used strictly for messaging each other, the thing is that she still checks it all the time, every 45 min or so.How i know she read it? She deletes the email after she reads. She told me that i didnt do anything to push her away and it was just a high school crush and it just faded away and wasnt attracted to me anymore. I asked her why shes was still checking, she said i am just being nice,and also asked will our email ever be open? she said yes NOW WTF THIS MEANS?? HELP!! NEED SOME VIEWS ON THIS!! I am thinking of going NC, what you guys think?
Author Kman21 Posted March 18, 2008 Author Posted March 18, 2008 y does she keep checking our personal email after the breakup? is she really being that nice?
carhill Posted March 18, 2008 Posted March 18, 2008 Don't even try to figure out her motives. Such will make you insane
Author Kman21 Posted March 18, 2008 Author Posted March 18, 2008 Me and this girl been together for two years, she is now a freshmen in college and i am a senior in high school, we are both the same age, shes just 4 months older, ever she began college, she told me that she was confused, then she said her feelings came back again, those feelings stayed for about a month, then she told me that she realized it was a high school crush when she started liking another guy, now they have been together for one month already, i asked her what happened with us? and she told me she views life differently now and shes and adult, she also tells me that she sees me as close since we have been together for two years now the thing is that we both had and still have an email we both share so we can message each other, this email is used strictly for messaging each other, the thing is that she still checks it all the time, every 45 min or so.How i know she read it? She deletes the email after she reads. She told me that i didnt do anything to push her away and it was just a high school crush and it just faded away and wasnt attracted to me anymore. I asked her why shes was still checking, she said i am just being nice,and also asked will our email ever be open? she said yes NOW WTF THIS MEANS?? HELP!! NEED SOME VIEWS ON THIS!! hey guys i was fine the whole day today, but now i am really startig to miss her, i mean i just want to tell her again how i feel, but i know that is no use, she seems happy with her new guy and that just really puts me down in the dumps, that means there is no hope, our relationship had no problems at all and we got along fine, and i hope when she compares me to him, she would come back to me, i dunno maybe im thinking foolish, but i am really going crazy here. i feel sometimes she is the only girl for me while i know others are out there, its really hard, y is it hard to move on like this?
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