Partner still searches on dating sight for other women

[marlena]

I agree with the above poster. He stays because it is convenient for him. What he is doing is plain wrong and proves that he has not committed his heart to you.

You are enabling hin to do this by accepting it. There is nothing to talk about. He is addicted to this and will continue to do so even if he promises not to.

 

Don't wait around untill he drops the bomb on you. Leave now before he leaves you for someone else he finds online.

 

I am sorry. I know this isn't what you want to here but believe me when I say that you can never trust this person. He will become a serial dater and a serial cheater.

 

I disagree with one poster that said that you are not meeting his needs. These type of people just like to play around. Period. He will never be happy or content in a monogamous relationship. He will always be thinking that he is missing out on so much fun and action. These people are never fulfilled by one partner. Unfortunately for you, online dating has made it very easy for these people to indulge their proclivity.

 

I am sure that this isn't what you want.

Edited March 23, 2008 by marlena

[Lizzie60]

Yes you are blind...

 

I also agree with the 2 previous posters.. this guy is playing you.. he's staying and waiting for the next 'better' woman to come up...

 

That's the Dating Sites Game.. you find one, it's OKAY but not quite as exciting as you thought.. so you keep looking just in case another one comes up and she's better in bed or more attractive.. etc... but you keep the one you have now cause it's convenient.. a good past time for the time being.. just like a kid.. it's OK until he gets tired of his new toy.. then he throws it away and try a new one..

 

I just can't believe women are still putting up with that crap..

 

I guess some women like to be tormented and stepped on... come on!!!!

[annieo]

OP do you really need anymore information? The ONLY reason for anybody to be on these sites is because they are looking for someone else. What was his excuse again, that he was just curious, doing some social studies research? Right, that makes sense. Is he writing a book or something?

He's counting on you believing him because he knows how invested you are in the relationship and that you are not going anywhere. Maybe you should decide if that is the person (doormat) you want to be.

Best of luck to you, I think you are being treated really badly by him. You deserve better.