Robin Banks Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 (edited) Right, i'm 25 and i've never had a propper girlfriend or kissed a girl in quite sometime :oops: and its getting me down Some background: having spent years at school in lower sets where it seemed at the time all the loosers/rejects were i've always wanted to get myself out of that circle/be a winner (rather than a looser which i still think i am to some degree) I spent years on my own (i had family round me etc but no real friends) working towards bettering myself trying to get somewhere in life as a whole (job etc) unfortunately the girlfriend thing hasnt happened for me and doubt it will really. I have a few friends round me but amoungst them im known as "Roman Abramovich" (draw your own conclusion to that) i can buy pretty much anything i want but that for me isnt important, i'd give it all up in a second to be able to have a girlfriend. I'm rather good at hiding things, my friends are surprised i dont have a girlfriend (i always manage to make up some excuse) afterall why would they question it/me? im "Roman Abramovich" To some degree i used to be quite good at making the ladies laugh (without getting my kit off - joke) however due to spending years on my own (ok while i was working i was round people etc but that was work and when work finished that was it, i'd go home and be on my own) i think i have lost it in person but still rather good at doing it behind a computer. I have an ideal lady (and no shes not a movie star) i know her for years but we have never really spoken - i think shes beautiful, i also think shes out of my league. I came accross her (no not like that) on networking site BEBO, we send msgs to eachother but i dunno if she gets my jokes, witty lines etc - its a shame as i really like her. i try and look for any excuse to msg her its usually a few months between msgs - yes she knows me, her mum knows my mum but she dont really know me and hasnt seen me in person for years. They say their is someone out their for everyone and for years i have always thought shes the one for me. ahhh what a load of waffle Edited March 16, 2008 by Robin Banks
carhill Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 1. Get out from behind the computer 2. I'll assume her mum knows where she lives and you know how to contact her mum. Ergo, you know how to find her. 3. Find her and be bold. Just so you're aware, there are plenty of beautiful women in the world who don't think they're beautiful. Maybe telling her that might be an epiphany. You never know. Compliments cost nothing and are cherished forever. Remove your fingers from the keyboard.....
Author Robin Banks Posted March 16, 2008 Author Posted March 16, 2008 1. Get out from behind the computer 2. I'll assume her mum knows where she lives and you know how to contact her mum. Ergo, you know how to find her. 3. Find her and be bold. Just so you're aware, there are plenty of beautiful women in the world who don't think they're beautiful. Maybe telling her that might be an epiphany. You never know. Compliments cost nothing and are cherished forever. Remove your fingers from the keyboard..... hahahaha i know what you're saying. "Compliments cost nothing and are cherished forever" good one.
carhill Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 Yeah, I thought for years that I was losing a piece of myself whenever I gave a female friend or paramour a compliment or said "I love you", but I couldn't have been more wrong. Instead, I gained a piece, a piece of goodness. Karma is an interesting thing Please, don't wait as long as I did to come to that realization
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