TheEagles Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 Got dumped, then the next day she's all sighing I ask her "did you think you made the decision yesterday too impusively?" she responds "Yeah kinda *sigh*" Then no contact for a week, I assumed she was totally over me, then whoop, I get a call. Apparantly her phone was cut off for a week. Then I get all these personal questions. "What colour were my eyes? Did you ever notice?" "Did you ever look at my butt?" (lol) "Do you play with yourself? I bet you do." "Do you care about me?" "Do you still think I'm pretty?" After that last question, I told her "I'm not telling you unless you tell me the real reason why you asked." She swears she asks these questions to everyone she knows. She told me she asked her girlfriends these questions, that she's just the type of person to ask random questions. Don't really believe it. Then she sees me talking to other girls, and keeps on pestering me on "Are you guys seeing each other?" "Did she say yes?", she asks these questions with a spice of jealousy I tell her, again "I'm not telling you what they said unless you tell me the real reason why you're asking." She swears that she's just interested in my life. Everytime I hint otherwise she claims that she wants nothing more, and that's it. Maybe she's to stubborn to admit otherwise, maybe I'm looking into it way too deep.
Tony T Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 She's asking you these questions for ego reasons. She wants to see just how devastated you are. Women don't dump men they care for. However, no matter what they think of the guy it's a blow to their ego if he's not crushed. She may be wanting one last big dose of ego for her self image. She's dumped you so she certainly isn't asking our of insecurity. Don't answer her questions and stay out of her sight. No contact at all with her. Why in heaven's name would you want to have anything to do with someone so immature. No matter what's up with her, she's got problems with hair on them. Go find you a lady with her head on straight. Lots of them out there.
sedgwick Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 Tell her that in breaking up with you, she lost the opportunity to have you answer those questions, and you are offended that she would ask. Who calls someone they just dumped to ask them if they masturbate?!?!?
Author TheEagles Posted March 16, 2008 Author Posted March 16, 2008 LOL She was actually surprised how well I took the dumping. There was a lot more sighing and disappointment on her side. I'm not crushed though, so it's all good.
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