Woggle Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 There is no doubt that I am attracted to my wife but I have never been able to put my finger on why she is so much above other women I have dealt with but I figures it out after spending some time with her today. I can relax and enjoy myself around her and enjoy the moment. Too many women are always picking at everything and you can never relax around them. You always have to gear up for an argument with them. Many women are always trying to take thing to the next level or work on the relationship while in a man's mind it just sounds like nagging. If you pick at something too much you will eventually destroy it but that is how many women approach relationships. I don't have this problem with my wife and I look forward to spending time with her. I can invite her along when I go out with the guys because I can be myself with her and won't have to fear the argument when we get home or even worse her causing a scene. I can hang out with her like I wold a friend and that is a priceless quality to have in a woman.
2sunny Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 good for you wog! btw - there are many women out there in the world that are free of drama and able to enjoy the simple things about each day that come along and the folks that come into play during those times...
Touche Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 That's nice to hear. Those are qualities I require in a friend, not to mention in a spouse. Oh and P.S. No offense to the ladies under 40 but you'll rarely find that in a woman under that age. I should know..I was once one of them. Live and learn!
2sunny Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 That's nice to hear. Those are qualities I require in a friend, not to mention in a spouse. Oh and P.S. No offense to the ladies under 40 but you'll rarely find that in a woman under that age. I should know..I was once one of them. Live and learn! let's hear it for women over forty! (and those closer to fifty) yippeeeee!
Curmudgeon Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 let's hear it for women over forty! (and those closer to fifty) yippeeeee! Women over 40 are special, and my two favorites here just proved why! But Woggle, you really have to get rid of the "too many women" thing. Unless you have a harem, you, like the resty of us mere mortal men, usually deal with them one at a time and very individually. In case you haven't noticed , Woggle, they're all delightfully different!
Author Woggle Posted March 16, 2008 Author Posted March 16, 2008 I wouldn'ty say it's an age thing because my friend who is 30 just married a woman like this and I know plenty of 40 year olds who are intolerable nags. I think that the healthier a person is emotionally the healthier their approach to relationships is and while many people know better at a young age most have to learn the hard way and that goes for both genders.
audrey_1 Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 (edited) Drama-free women do exist under 40! But, I've found that men around my age are the drama queens, which is why my last two boyfriends were 50 and 51. This is how I try to be in my relationships. I try not to be "that girl." It's about companionship, anyway, so I'm not sure why some women fight against what that means and how it could enrich their lives. Edited March 16, 2008 by audrey_1
2sunny Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 who are intolerable nags. I think that the healthier a person is emotionally the healthier their approach to relationships is while many people know better at a young age most have to learn the hard way and that goes for both genders. geez this seems too damn difficult when it seems so easy to be happy. sometimes i think happiness shouldn't be as hard as you present it wog. no wonder after 20 years of being married (now divorced) it is easier to think of staying single knowing this simple concept gets so complicated by so many.
Ariadne Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 I think I finally figured out what attracts me to her Proabably you had some sex with her today Saturday or she gave you some head. And you are... oh... I'm in love!
Curmudgeon Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 Drama-free women do exist under 40! But, I've found that men around my age are the drama queens, which is why my last two boyfriends were 50 and 51. ...how do you feel about 61 year olds and how could you enrich my life with your companionship?
Curmudgeon Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 I think I finally figured out what attracts me to her Proabably you had some sex with her today Saturday or she gave you some head. And you are... oh... I'm in love! Isn't that a bit crude, Ariadne? I know this may come as a surprise to you but some of us male animals can actually seek and see substance beyond a mere warm body and willing receptacle.
2sunny Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 ...how do you feel about 61 year olds and how could you enrich my life with your companionship? if you're fishin for some attention C=Lion - i'll come over there and pull on your manly mane!
Trialbyfire Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 It's always good to know what you value in your significant other. Each person has different needs. Relaxing with someone can be nice but why do you feel the need to not be yourself, while you're with anyone else? I can understand trying to accommodate a more sensitive personality, which can get wearing sometimes, but not being able to relax to the point of discomfort, means you're probably not compatible personalities.
Curmudgeon Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 if you're fishin for some attention C=Lion - i'll come over there and pull on your manly mane! ...you're welcome any time! Great pic.
2sunny Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 ...you're welcome any time! Great pic. you're a love!
Ariadne Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 Isn't that a bit crude, Ariadne? I know this may come as a surprise to you but some of us male animals can actually seek and see substance beyond a mere warm body and willing receptacle. Oh, You know guys get all romantic and feel in love once they have sex. The way to a man's heart is not by "substance" (though that's good too) but by their dik.
Author Woggle Posted March 16, 2008 Author Posted March 16, 2008 That is not true. I had plenty of partners and only loved two women in my life so it is more than sex.
Ariadne Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 That is not true. I had plenty of partners and only loved two women in my life so it is more than sex. Yes, I believe that too. I meant more on the lines of: I have never been able to put my finger on why she is so much above other women... I can relax and enjoy myself around her and enjoy the moment... look forward to spending time with her... I can be myself with her .... I can hang out with her like I would a friend... Yadda yadda..
2sunny Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 You know guys get all romantic and feel in love once they have sex. wow Ariadne this is a very broad stroke. depends on the man and what his priorities are at the time - for that matter women fall into this as well.
audrey_1 Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 ...how do you feel about 61 year olds and how could you enrich my life with your companionship? By being drama-free! I don't have any thoughts specific to 61 year olds. Case by case basis...
luvstarved Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 Wog, I am verrrrrry happy for you because it seems you have found what we all want...just the simple GD comfort of a partner that we can relax and be ourselves with. You are an extremely lucky man and it honestly warms my heart to hear you acknowledge it...good for you and your wife.
Curmudgeon Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 By being drama-free! It's a rare woman....no....rare human being who is drama free. Having spent 25 long years with a drama queen I can certainly appreciate anyone who isn't.
Author Woggle Posted March 16, 2008 Author Posted March 16, 2008 Nothing is ever drama free but my wife handles drama like an adult and not like a little girl. She doesn't try to create drama for god knows what reason. I don't have to worry about my marriage going into crisis because the guy in the office next to her says good morning to her and she feels this amazing connection.
Trialbyfire Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 Oh, You know guys get all romantic and feel in love once they have sex. The way to a man's heart is not by "substance" (though that's good too) but by their dik. Hopefully with the OP, it's more than that, since they're married. In many committed relationships, it's also a form of emotional reconnection.
annieo Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 There is no doubt that I am attracted to my wife but I have never been able to put my finger on why she is so much above other women I have dealt with but I figures it out after spending some time with her today. I can relax and enjoy myself around her and enjoy the moment. Too many women are always picking at everything and you can never relax around them. You always have to gear up for an argument with them. Many women are always trying to take thing to the next level or work on the relationship while in a man's mind it just sounds like nagging. If you pick at something too much you will eventually destroy it but that is how many women approach relationships. I don't have this problem with my wife and I look forward to spending time with her. I can invite her along when I go out with the guys because I can be myself with her and won't have to fear the argument when we get home or even worse her causing a scene. I can hang out with her like I wold a friend and that is a priceless quality to have in a woman. Sound to me like you've met "the one" (and I do believe in that sort of romantic tripe). Congratulations Wog, count your blessings and don't screw it up with unfounded doubts. She sounds like a keeper. And from the way you describe her, I think she feels the same way about you.
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