Zanar Posted July 9, 2003 Posted July 9, 2003 Well, here's the deal, I broke it off with my girl about three weeks ago. The reason that we broke up was because i dont feel that i get along with her family, and that they dont like me anyways. So we mutually broke up(nither of us wanted to at all because we like eachother a lot) and since then i had been thinking about some things. since we've been apart i noticed many things that i did wrong. see, she was everything that i wanted and was always suprising me, and i never did the same for her....i was selfish. Now that i realize this and i know now that i didnt try to get along with her family i want to get together with her again. What should i do? I feel like it was stupid to break it off just because of something that happened because of me being a stupid ass. Anyways, thanx to anyone who replies.
yes Posted July 9, 2003 Posted July 9, 2003 you can simply let her know that you've been thinking about your relationship with her family, and that you think that if you were more so and so and less so and so, they'd like you & you'd get along. if she says - cool, let's try that & gets back together with you - great; if not - just drop it. that's what i'd do if i were you. good luck, -yes
longlegzs80 Posted July 9, 2003 Posted July 9, 2003 You say you have been thinking about the relationship alot and the things that you have supposed done wrong such as with not suprising her with things, is not a good enough reason to get back together. But, if you have strong feelings for her, and you want to persue more, then maybe she needs to talk to her parents about you and let them know what kind of guy you are. Or, maybe you can start all over again, and start out as friends with asking her if she wants to hang out etc. Move slowly if you and her do get into a relationship, and make sure things are good to go with her parents. You really need to talk to her. Now, it would be different depending on how old she is and what age you are and if her parents have a problem with that. No one knows though. Just hangout with her, and talk to her about this whole relationship thing.
Author Zanar Posted July 14, 2003 Author Posted July 14, 2003 Thanks for the advice. We've gotten back together, and everything seems to be working out better. I was invited to their family reunion by her mother, and that made me feel more liked by them. Anyways. . . Thanks again
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