wvhenson Posted March 15, 2008 Posted March 15, 2008 Ive dated this guy for over a year. We both are seemingly GREAT together. He is living with a guy he has been with for 3 yrs but is very unhappy with him. He met me and it seemed his world was back. He cares for me deeply. He sorta ended us back a while ago and said he was "trying to make it work again with his ex". But, that soon failed and my BF was back to me. He has said he wants us to get a place,etc...We havent yet. We have had to talk, text, and see each other sorta in secret from his current BF of which he said he is not interested, wants away from him,etc...Well, the other day his "BF" saw where he and I keep in touch and flipped out on him. I sensed that made my BF very scared and he sorta ended us again saying "its hard to live a double life" etc. I just know down deep its because he was scared. He would be kicked out and loose alot of belongings because of what he has in the "BF's" house. I love my BF to death. I understand the situation tho. I want us to live together. We are so good together and I helped him and he helps me. I just wonder if I should stick it out, be cool and chill and not go nuts and psycho like his "BF" does to him. That guy is rude and boring and my BF says that that guy doesnt do the things that I like,etc. I just wonder if after any of you read this if it sounds natural that my BF would be scared of loosing things (possessions that is) just because we havent gotten a place of our own so that he feels this relationship is going any place. I would appreciate any advise.
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