City_girl Posted March 15, 2008 Posted March 15, 2008 It's so hard to hear but I agree with the above post. Your worth more, don't do as I do/did and sell yourself short. Go on the trip alone and meet a nice man. I think we forget that when were wasting our time on these loosers we are potentially letting Mr Right get away.
Kamille Posted March 15, 2008 Posted March 15, 2008 Well I can't say I just want love to fill a void...I want it because I want it ..but the boring moments remind me how much I want it. And like you said, no guarantees. That's the scary part. For me to find someone is like pulling teeth, so once I do it doesn't mean it'll even work out, then back to square 1 I'll be. Well that's precisely why you have to be careful who you let into your life. Make sure they're worth it before you get emotionnally involved - and that usually means, before you sleep with them. I was starting to find the 'screening' process to be a lot of fun before I met bf. The fact is, men like a challenge. They like feeling like they need to 'win' your affection. Plus, I wasn't playing hard to get just to be hard to get. I was genuinely looking out for my best interest.
Author LoveLace Posted March 15, 2008 Author Posted March 15, 2008 Yea I pretty much admitted to Dan that I'm no challenge, I'm right here. So that's that. I've been chatting some back and forth with this new guy again today. He seems like a pretty nice guy so far. Now we're talking about taking the next step and actually talking on the phone sometime....he's an engineer but seems to struggle with typing...and he's cute and seems sweet. We'll see what happens.
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