iwish Posted March 14, 2008 Posted March 14, 2008 Firstly i know it's silly, but i can't help but think that she has met someone else and moved on. I'm living in hope that now that i'm giving her time she will have a life without me and miss me a bit, and then realise that she made a mistake!! because after all i was good to her.. but then what if she realises the opposite!! Don't get me wrong, i am doing things, i'm going to the gym, learning new things, making new friends, bettering myself for me not for anyone else.. But i want her to see that, i want her to see that i'm the guy to be with, not some other man!!! But maybe she won't, maybe if she is with another guy he is infact better than me... Just ranting, good to rant otherwise i'd contact her and boy am i not going to do that!!!
malaclypse Posted March 14, 2008 Posted March 14, 2008 But i want her to see that, i want her to see that i'm the guy to be with, not some other man!!! My guess: She will realize that - but only after you are over her and stopped caring. Such is life...
XxBacktoBlackXx Posted March 14, 2008 Posted March 14, 2008 Malaclypse, that is always what seems to happen, doesn't it? As for the OP, I know what you are going through is terrible. I'm not experiencing it right now, but I think most everyone has been through such a situation at some point in their lives and it's absolutely miserable. I would try to look at it as a way for YOU to get over her, not for her to get over you. If you try and form a new life for yourself, perhaps you will not want to be with her months from now. Best of luck to you, and I hope you stay with NC.
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