twice_shy Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 thank you, it is, and I don't know why but the people that I have confided in are supporting me on it, I wrote this on the internet so I could make sure that humanity hasn't gone completely to shambles, I'm glad there are people out there that can bring me back to earth. I have to say once again good call, I'm back to being single, the bf does deserve better than me, it wasn't as hard as I thought it was going to be. quite amicable. I know it's only been a short time, but after everything I have read, and because I don't want to live my life in deceit and a swimming in a web of lies.... and I want a pure love that is only for the two parties involved....I have found a way to deal with the situation, I haven't talked to called or returned calls to the MM, I decided to take a few minutes everyday and write in a journal about my feelings about what is going on. It's a start. Well alright then. Now just hope that someone doesn't get you to give them your heart, then trample on it later and say, "ooooppps!!"
wtfamidoing Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 I'm relatively new to posting here, but I've been standing on the sidelines, watching with rapt attention for quite awhile. I have come to recognize several usernames that I see repeatedly, chiming in in response to various threads. In many cases I can practically tell you verbatim what their responses are going to be before reading them. It seems pretty clear that many of these responses are nothing more than vicious venting against some similar misdeed once perpetrated upon them. Not everyone has the benefit of such a clear sense of what's right / proper / acceptable / upstanding / moral / whatever you want to call it. There's a reason people post here, and it's often that they DON'T know the right thing to do. Even if they do know what's right, they don't come here to be moralized to. I personally avoid reading anything posted by some of these monotonous scolds. I'd swear they just keep pasting the same response into thread after thread. Is that what you're after? Is that the effect you want? Please respond with some respect in the future so we can take all opinions seriously here.
tombraidergirl Posted March 26, 2008 Posted March 26, 2008 im new here but isnt this what the forums are for freedom of speech maybe i missed something... i would think that anyone can vent to share the pain and suffering from where they came from to save someone from hell.. maybe thats just me though.... thought.
Darth Vader Posted March 26, 2008 Posted March 26, 2008 Happy birthday to your boyfriend, what a birthday present you gave him, a whole lot of pain, the gift that keeps on giving!
Darth Vader Posted March 27, 2008 Posted March 27, 2008 Not everyone has the benefit of such a clear sense of what's right / proper / acceptable / upstanding / moral / whatever you want to call it. There's a reason people post here, and it's often that they DON'T know the right thing to do. Even if they do know what's right, they don't come here to be moralized to. I personally avoid reading anything posted by some of these monotonous scolds. I'd swear they just keep pasting the same response into thread after thread. Is that what you're after? Is that the effect you want? Please respond with some respect in the future so we can take all opinions seriously here. No lady, they do know what they are doing is wrong, that's the problem with people who act in these manners, they know alright, but, they do it anyway, just because they can! Then people like you come on here and underhandedly tell the victim of past circumstances that they're wrong for feeling the way they do!? At the same time saying that people who do foolish things like this, that is Okay, when it's not! Without morals, you'll have chaos, chaos is the absents of order, without order there is no structure, no foundation for any relationship to flurish, let alone survive! Now that's an answer that you don't commonly see here on LS, I hope you're happy now!
BetrayedMM Posted March 27, 2008 Posted March 27, 2008 Without morals, there is no such thing as infidelity, no reason to have this here subforum. Therefore, I think moral issues should be discussed, even if those who are amoral don't like it. There is more to life than self gratification.
BetrayedMM Posted March 27, 2008 Posted March 27, 2008 There's a reason people post here, and it's often that they DON'T know the right thing to do. Even if they do know what's right, they don't come here to be moralized to. LOL! So if they DON'T know, no one should tell them, and if they do, no one should remind them? Why should they post at all then? Please try to make sense while scolding the scolders.
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