Kelso Posted March 14, 2008 Posted March 14, 2008 Hello everyone - There is this girl I like ... let's skip the details. I like her and I think she might (have been) interested too. At least I always got smiles from her, she was always touching me, we had some interesting conversations, we danced at clubs and so on. But though I liked her, I wasn't sure if I should jump in the pool. I'm planning on leaving on an exchange student program for the summer. That's basically what held me back. I don't find it very charming to be seeing a new girl seriously now only to turn it into a long distance in few weeks. So I was gonna wait and see if I would be accepted into the program first. Well, time went by (still haven't got the acceptance mail) and everything is crazy at school right now. When I get a break ... it's crazy at her side and vice versa. Sometimes I think about if I'm just postponing this because I'm scared of rejection or anything, I don't know. Worth noticing; I don't talk to her a lot at school, mainly to avoid the friends zone. Well today, there is another guy. He was hitting on her few weeks ago too, but she didn't seemed interesting. I checked his MySpace today to say that they have been sending comments. Always he who starts with flirty comments and doesn't receive very flirty replies. But today I saw the first message initiated from her, and that got me thinking; did I wait too long? The only problem is that this guy is actually my friend. Not one of my closest friends, but friend at school. I'm definetly in no position to get angry at him, especially because I've never exposed any interest in her and have no right to be angry. So the question is ... what to do ... what to do?
AussieJack Posted March 14, 2008 Posted March 14, 2008 Hello everyone - There is this girl I like ... Well today, there is another guy. He was hitting on her few weeks ago too, but she didn't seemed interesting. So the question is ... what to do ... what to do? Women LOVE attention from men. If a chick is not in a realtionship with a great guy she will get attention from whomever offers it. Attention from men is 'emotional chocolate' to women.. If a women has a vacancy in her life, she will fill it,even casually, with any male presence available even if she has NO intention of being more that "friends" with the guy. Your girl is doing exactly that. SO you need to step into the space. It is THAT simple.
GoFigure08 Posted March 14, 2008 Posted March 14, 2008 Definitly agree you need to make you presence known like yea i'm eyeing her also before it gets awkward and you really have waited to long. Go out on a friendly date it's ok if u fall in the friend zone cause why not gain a sexy new friend? Who knows where that friendship may lead to... Be aggressive but mysterious!
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