finally told MM I'm pregnant...

[sb129]

Oh come ON! Have you had your sense of humour amputated?

 

You said you don't like inserting anything up your v...... but you are pregnant... so you must've put SOMETHING up there right?

 

Jokes aren't funny if you have to explain them.

[Gwyneth]

Why do you want to have a baby with someone that YOU know that cheats on his wife and someone that may or may not be there for you and your child?

 

Too controversial- for you to make a point out of it.

 

You dont have to "understand" her position... there is nothing to "understand" there... At the end of the day you really dont know if what he was telling you about their marriage was all true. Obviously there was trouble in paradise, since he cheated but that is not always the case. Some men are just grimey like that and never get enough... as some here will call it- they are "Cake eaters".

Dont judge her actions... because she doesn't owe ANYONE and explanation on why she is starting a family with the person she married.

 

You're missing the point here...

 

My pregnancy was not planned. Hers was.

[Lookingforward]

Well I do always say "according to him," so I guess that means I don't know for sure. But she did call me five times to breath in my ear, and I heard her say something but couldn't make it out. And she did change his phone number that very night.

 

 

***Does nobody else see the irony in this statement? :lmao::lmao:

 

Come on people! ***

 

What are you implying?

 

it probably started with B and ended with h (if I was going to hazard a guess)

 

oh and fyi "implying" is to infer indirectly...don't think there was much indirect about the comment myself

[Gwyneth]

Anyway, I really think it's time this thread is rested. We're getting no where and we're completely off target. We've made our points and that's fine. So let's just move on, please. thank you.

[sb129]

You're missing the point here...

 

My pregnancy was not planned. Hers was.

 

So what? She is his Wife, its generally considered socially acceptable for married people to plan children together. This is even more reason for him not to play away..

 

Sorry for the sarcasm, but honestly....

[Lookingforward]

You're missing the point here...

 

My pregnancy was not planned. Hers was.

 

How dare she plan a pregnancy with her H - for shame, what next

[Gwyneth]

it probably started with B and ended with h (if I was going to hazard a guess)

 

oh and fyi "implying" is to infer indirectly...don't think there was much indirect about the comment myself

 

I have a sensitive vagina. So now that makes me a B****h?

[JackJack]

Oh come ON! Have you had your sense of humour amputated?

 

You said you don't like inserting anything up your v...... but you are pregnant... so you must've put SOMETHING up there right?

 

Jokes aren't funny if you have to explain them.

 

I'm assuming she was meaning to insert anything up there and leave it for a certain amount of time.

 

Not like a d*ck that only stays in for so long and it goes in and out too.

 

Just trying to being funny....sorry if its not working.

[Lookingforward]

Anyway, I really think it's time this thread is rested. We're getting no where and we're completely off target. We've made our points and that's fine. So let's just move on, please. thank you.

 

This thread went off target a LONG time ago

[Gwyneth]

HELLO!!!!!!!!! You're seriously missing my point here.

 

Oh okay, so if you sister or daugther, whose husband has been cheating on her, told you she's pregnant or trying for a baby, you think this would be OKAY?

 

I am not specifically talking about this wife, but anyone in general.

 

PLEASE, lay off, take a rest, and stop responding to this thread. It needs to be locked.

[Lookingforward]

I have a sensitive vagina. So now that makes me a B****h?

 

Give it a rest Gwyn, you KNOW I was talking about the bolded part of your quote

[sb129]

Just trying to being funny....sorry if its not working.

 

I know the feeling.....

[Lookingforward]

I'm assuming she was meaning to insert anything up there and leave it for a certain amount of time.

 

Not like a d*ck that only stays in for so long and it goes in and out too.

 

Just trying to being funny....sorry if its not working.

 

Only if you're doing it right

[Lookingforward]

HELLO!!!!!!!!! You're seriously missing my point here.

 

Oh okay, so if you sister or daugther, whose husband has been cheating on her, told you she's pregnant or trying for a baby, you think this would be OKAY?

 

I am not specifically talking about this wife, but anyone in general.

 

PLEASE, lay off, take a rest, and stop responding to this thread. It needs to be locked.

 

Please lock this thread, it's making Gwynny uncomfortable

 

Thank you in advance

[nadiaj2727]

Why do you want to have a baby with someone that YOU know that cheats on his wife and someone that may or may not be there for you and your child?

 

Too controversial- for you to make a point out of it.

 

You dont have to "understand" her position... there is nothing to "understand" there... At the end of the day you really dont know if what he was telling you about their marriage was all true. Obviously there was trouble in paradise, since he cheated but that is not always the case. Some men are just grimey like that and never get enough... as some here will call it- they are "Cake eaters".

Dont judge her actions... because she doesn't owe ANYONE and explanation on why she is starting a family with the person she married.

 

Those are really good points Mimi. I don't understand the need to blame any of this on the wife. This man married her, made promises to her, obviously was apart of starting a family with her (actually, continuing, since she has a child that is part of their family unit already). So what exactly is it that you think she did wrong, Gwenyth? Pick the wrong guy? Well then so did you, with more knowledge of his true shady character. She's too trusting/ accepting of this guy? Well then so are you and even more so, because you had so many more reasons to doubt him and knew what a slimebucket he was, yet you continued to have an affair with him, sleep with him, get pregnant by him...

 

I just don't understand your issues with his wife. Could it be that you see parts of yourself in her? It seems like you dislike her for doing all the same things you've been doing -- being with MM, trusting MM, getting pregnant by MM. Or does it just bother you that she's married to MM?

 

But all of that really doesn't matter, I'm just curious but the fact is that you should leave the wife out of the picture completely. I really don't understand why you want to have this sleazy man's child but you do and that's your choice. Just like you don't want people to criticize your choices, why criticize her choices when you don't like people criticizing yours, and she is in a more understanding position in having a baby with her own husband than you are in having a baby with her husband? I just don't get it, sorry.

[MimiMe]

You're missing the point here...

 

My pregnancy was not planned. Hers was.

 

 

I got that a while ago... and reply to your post about your physical chances of getting pregnant and why not...

 

Just see you digging yourself in and out of the same hole. One minute you say one thing and the next you shoot yourself on the foot.

 

Mama... THERE IS NO POINT! HE is married to HER- "normal" people get marry to create a life together (and hope that nobody interferes, lol!)and those able to procreate create children together. A&B=C that simple...

you perhaps want to justify the fact that she is also pregnant by thinking that she is out of her mind for being it. Let's see what she gotta say about you when she finds out you are too!!

 

I just find it cynical on your part to think what her reasons may have been for getting pregnant or to even question why she would get pregnant.

Remember, at the end of the day MM and You screwed up... (literately) LOL! not her. Focus on other things now... read "what to expect while you are expecting". Helps a lot with the pregnancy.

[nadiaj2727]

Oh okay, so if you sister or daugther, whose husband has been cheating on her, told you she's pregnant or trying for a baby, you think this would be OKAY?

 

For one thing, I highly doubt his wife knows he's been cheating on her, so it's not fair to act like she's telling her sister or daughter "I'm pregnant to my husband who has been cheating on me!" She's probably very happy and excited to be pregnant, like most wives who were planning to have a baby. That's how it should be.

 

And for another thing, if my sister or daughter, who has been having an affair with a married man, told me she was pregnant to MM, planned or otherwise, I would not think this was okay.

[MimiMe]

 

But all of that really doesn't matter, I'm just curious but the fact is that you should leave the wife out of the picture completely. I really don't understand why you want to have this sleazy man's child but you do and that's your choice. Just like you don't want people to criticize your choices, why criticize her choices when you don't like people criticizing yours, and she is in a more understanding position in having a baby with her own husband than you are in having a baby with her husband? I just don't get it, sorry.

 

Cosign it.

[nadiaj2727]

PLEASE, lay off, take a rest, and stop responding to this thread. It needs to be locked.

 

Why do you always start threads and then ask that people stop responding? I don't get it. Do you want our opinions or not? It seems like when people say things you don't agree with, all of a sudden you want your own thread to be locked. Well okay but maybe that just means you should stop posting threads, this seems to be a pattern. You know I like you and I am not trying to fight with you, I am just saying, it makes no sense to continually do this.

[JackJack]

Why do you always start threads and then ask that people stop responding? I don't get it. Do you want our opinions or not? It seems like when people say things you don't agree with, all of a sudden you want your own thread to be locked. Well okay but maybe that just means you should stop posting threads, this seems to be a pattern. You know I like you and I am not trying to fight with you, I am just saying, it makes no sense to continually do this.

 

Gywn, I think, (and this is just my opinon, its not right or wrong) but I think if people's opinon's bother others then the person it bothers should not continually make posts, that they know will more than likely get heated and cause that person (or people) to be stressed out. I understand there are some people who give advice, opinons, or whatever that you like and enjoy there advice or opinons, however, it seems to me there are more peoples advice/opinons that bother you than there are that you like. Why keep doing that to yourself?

[Lookingforward]

Why do you always start threads and then ask that people stop responding? I don't get it. Do you want our opinions or not? It seems like when people say things you don't agree with, all of a sudden you want your own thread to be locked. Well okay but maybe that just means you should stop posting threads, this seems to be a pattern. You know I like you and I am not trying to fight with you, I am just saying, it makes no sense to continually do this.

 

Ditto, when some of the comments make her uncomfortable the "close the thread" stuff starts

 

We've definitely moved WAY past the "finally told him" stuff, so maybe we DO need a new thread to explore why it's not okay for a W to get pregnant by her H just because the pregnant OW doesn't "understand it"

[PandorasBox]

Gywn, this is JMO, nothing more, nothing less. Why don't you give LS a break for a bit. Rest, take care of yourself and baby(ies). Maybe you will soon find out more about the baby(ies) how far you are for sure etc, and what the MM plans on doing etc, and then you can update us all then. It just seems these threads go in circles. I'm not knocking it, I'm just saying after awhile it gets kind of old to keep going around and around, not just for others, but for you too I would think. Just give things a break, and update us later on as things progress. Just a thought.

[redfathom]

And for the record, I didn't Purposely get pregnant for money. I don't need money...that's the lamest suggestion

 

I think it's funny that it's a suggestion, instead of an acuasation. HAHA.

[MimiMe]

Gywn, this is JMO, nothing more, nothing less. Why don't you give LS a break for a bit. Rest, take care of yourself and baby(ies). Maybe you will soon find out more about the baby(ies) how far you are for sure etc, and what the MM plans on doing etc, and then you can update us all then. It just seems these threads go in circles. I'm not knocking it, I'm just saying after awhile it gets kind of old to keep going around and around, not just for others, but for you too I would think. Just give things a break, and update us later on as things progress. Just a thought.

 

 

Good point. I am tellign you... Buy "What to expect when you are expecting" and start reading it!!!

[redfathom]

My point is, personally if I knew or thought / suspected my husband was cheating on me, I don't think now would be the time to try for a baby. She tried for a baby and "According" to him, their pregnancy was her plan, not his (). I am not at all justifying my situation, but as an outsider, I am having a hard time understanding why a wife would want to have a baby when she suspects he's cheating on her?

 

I don't understand why you would not try to protect yourself from getting pregnant from a guy you don't love, who you say is juvenile, cheates on his wife and is scum.

 

Maybe it's just me but 1. I would not sleep with a married man (which I believe you did because he was ignoring you and obvisouly bored with you) 2. I would take extra care not to get pregnant in the first place.

 

You did not even say you were pregnant until he told you his wife thought she was: you posted: blah blah blah he told me his wife is pregnant, blah blah blah, but "surpries, guess who else is pregnant...me :)".

 

What date do you think you even conceived this baby? And how long after did you find out you were pregnant? You did not even sleep with him until mid Jan. and a month later you KNEW you were pregnant, I doubt that.