shanny Posted March 12, 2008 Posted March 12, 2008 OK, this could be the dumbest questions EVER on this site but I just want some opinions. If you've read any of my posts you know I'm in a crap relationship (for the most part) with a guy that I can't trust. I checked his email a couple times and he found out so he changed his passwords a few times. His old password used to be janet123 (I'm Janet). Just on a whim, I decided to try his ex's name and then 123. Well lo and behold I was right. What I want to know, is it just a password or a sign of something more important? Most people use what's important to them as their password. Him and his ex still do talk a lot and text constantly. He insists it's all about their kids, but I don't believe him. She wants him back and he has said that 20 years of marriage is hard to get over. I'm very paranoid about their relationship and don't know if this is a sign that maybe something is going on. What do you think?
Tripper Posted March 12, 2008 Posted March 12, 2008 If you've read any of my posts you know I'm in a crap relationship (for the most part) with a guy that I can't trust. Him and his ex still do talk a lot and text constantly. He insists it's all about their kids, but I don't believe him. What do you think? Shanny, I read your original post and I gotta ask. Why are you staying in a crappy relationship with a guy you can't trust? Trust is the foundation of a relationship and life's to short to be in a crappy one. From what you describe this guy is a loser and he will drag you down if you stay with him. That or eventually the R will fail. Too many RED FLAGS for long term success. Love simply isn't enough to hold an R together. You need trust, mutual respect, common values, and commitment. And it sure doesn't sound like you have any of those things. You owe it to yourself to find someone with whom you can build a strong, stable relationship. In the meantime if I were you I'd lose this guy.
LucreziaBorgia Posted March 12, 2008 Posted March 12, 2008 What do I think? That this is one in a very long line of similar questions to come. Like Erica Jong said "Advice is what you ask for when you already know the answer but wish you didn't."
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