Author Elilmomma Posted April 7, 2008 Author Posted April 7, 2008 You are 100% right I don't know exactly what he told her or what he' telling her. It's not like he can be trusted right now. My hubby swears it was never really that serious to him, but I told him it must have been to her. I agree him not calling her in front of me gives me the impression that there's more to it even though he swears it's over and that it was never serious. Now the ow called my house at like 4 am in the freaking morning a little over 2 weeks ago telling me that my hubby's still calling her and that she wanted to meet me now it was suppose to be over 3 months ago from when I found out about it. He thinks I am lying because someone at his job told him that she never called and hubby says why would she call of they weren't doing anything now I found out that he called her a couple of times he says to tell her to leave him alone she says something else. I told him to check the phone records if he don't believe me. Hubby never told me that the ow was going to his job looking for him when he was not there. Now we had a huge fist fight over all of this bull***t I don't know what to do? or How can I believe him when he is still lying to me? I told him I can't take it anymore either he has absolutly no contact with her or our marriage is over, but again he said that it was over before. I don't know how he can expect me to believe him?
LakesideDream Posted April 7, 2008 Posted April 7, 2008 If she really got the message then why is she still going to his job looking for him? Hubby says it was never that serious obviously it was for her and still 2 months later she won't leave him alone. No I don't believe anything he says right now he wants me to trust him how can I? Elimomma, it isn't "over" until both persons believe it's over. If the woman is actually "stalking" your husband, which I doubt, he should take out a protective order against her. The reasons and facts will come out in open court during the hearing and that should be that. I doubt either your husband or the OM are anxious for that to happen. As for "trusting" again. You never will. Not completely. That part of the relationship is over. Once one person cheats the other NEVER forgets, you will always be on guard for signs that it's happening again. Thus, the trust will never be total.
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