MexicanBillBacker Posted March 12, 2008 Posted March 12, 2008 I've never had a girlfriend and I'm 17 years old. I'm pretty popular and pretty good looking, and ****ing sweet. I mean what 17 year old guy cares about a girls feelings and prays for them to be happy and ****. So I guess I'm kind of an anomaly but I don't see it happening. Every time I've fallen for someone its ended up bad and I just can't see it happening. Like when I imagine the Bills winning the superbowl it feels great and everything but I just don't see it happening, same thing happens when I think about having a girlfriend.
Tony T Posted March 12, 2008 Posted March 12, 2008 Your problem is your too ****ing sweet. Yuk! 97 percent of girls your age hate that. They like guys who give them a hard time, who play hard to get, who don't pay any attention to them. Now, if you want to go for some ladies in their 30's you'll probably score big. But for right now, stop caring so much and STOP BEING SO ***ING SWEET! Don't be so nice, don't be so available, don't give them so much attention. BE A CHALLENGE. PLAY HARD TO GET. No woman wants a man who falls right into her lap and rolls over at her every whim. That makes girls sick! Google "nice guy" and you can read all about that sweety sweety stuff. Oh yeah, there are a lot of people here who'll tell you I'm off the mark. Hey, I've been there in the trenches, got the T-Shirt and the certification. Good luck!
Author MexicanBillBacker Posted March 12, 2008 Author Posted March 12, 2008 I've tried being and ******* but it doesn't work for me. Its like working against who I am. I'm a ****ing sweet guy what can I do I found an article that said this: Jerks aren’t loved for their meanness. They are desired because of the challenge they present, their elusiveness and their apparent independence. At the same time, nice guys aren’t detested for their consideration and compassion. They are “boring” because they so often are emotionally weak and needy. If you can somehow combine the independent boldness of the jerks with the caring attitude of the nice guys, you’ll find that you’ve stumbled upon a winning combination. Maybe there's still hope Although I think I'm cursed. I don't know I just can't really see it happening. At least I'm popular, that's pretty cool. When you are going to clubs in nice cars and hanging out with hot girls every weekend you tend to forget that your love life is cursed
SpanksTheMonkey Posted March 12, 2008 Posted March 12, 2008 (edited) I kinda see were TonyTs coming from most girls your age arnt into the super nice guys I wouldn't think. But there are the rare exceptions have you thought about dating a little older maybe once you turn 18? I think like he said older women more times want a nice guy you also sound young no offense meant there. After all your only 17 but some times that in its self is a bit of turn off you sound like a rare creature now adays. A kid that still acts like a kid no offense meant I hope that came across the right way. Just relax and give yourself some time and personal space to grow for a little bit you will find her! Edited March 12, 2008 by SpanksTheMonkey
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