lost in space Posted March 12, 2008 Posted March 12, 2008 I am brand new to this site, I have read some previous posts while googling for advice to my problem and this site seems awfully helpful. I see that you like to KISS, keep it simple (silly)... here it goes... I have a crush on someone I work with, before you all say DON"T DO IT!! He does not work in my branch, I hardly ever see him, so it's not that big of a deal, it's not like he sits next to me or something. Honestly, we have quite a few known couples at my place of employment... Anyhoo, I think he is flirting with me, my friends tell me he is, but I am in desperate need of un-biased opinions. PLEASE for the love of GOD! He winks sometimes... He teases me, and I tease back. He has revealed some personal info, i.e. you don't take girls that you are dating to company events or they get to into you, then he proceeded to tell me about one such girl... (she sounded like a stalker) I have a yoga ball that I sit on at work rather than the ergonomic BS they call a chair, and the other day he was kicking it, I asked him if he was hoping that I fell off, he said no just taking out agression and if i fell that would be an added bonus. Everytime I ask him to do something he does... for awhile there it felt like he would call and talk to me just to talk to me, or silly excuses that were work related but he already knew the answer... lastly, I am pretty close with one of his accounts, well the A/P gal there and I was having a bad day awhile ago and he said to take his customer out to lunch, I said no, that was his job, and he said I will take you and them... this is now scheduled... I have tried to determine if he acts this way with all the females in my office, but I am a bit segregated and cannot gauge it properly... I do know he teases me relentlessly and I do the same to him... and he does always stop in and at least say hi when he is in the office... are these positive signs that I can move forward with the let's go here after work...????
SoStupid Posted March 12, 2008 Posted March 12, 2008 I think these are signs to me that he is flirting, If you feel comfortable dating someone you work with. Let loose see what happens:)... Good Luck!
Author lost in space Posted April 5, 2008 Author Posted April 5, 2008 So did the lunch thing, it was fun. He joked around about what he thought I was goign to order (it was what I wanted LOL). He asked me a couple of weekends in a row what I was doing on the weekend. I tell him and he always leaves it at that, GUYS do you do this just to be polite sometimes for lack of better things to talk about? Found out he jokes and kids with another girl in the office who has a total innocent crush on him (she is married and happily I might add, but she does think the crush is cute and he knows it). So if he kids with her as well, is this basically just his personality? I need to know if there is some way to let him I am interested ina save face if I need sort of way? I find myself totally analyzing this situation over and over again and it is making me crazy! I told him I wanted a bottle of alcohol cause his accounts are driving me to drink and he calls me to tell me that he is going to have a drink and he will hav eone for me... I think maybe he is just toying with my emotions cause he knows I have a crush on him... :eek::eek:
Lizzie60 Posted April 5, 2008 Posted April 5, 2008 It's hard to say.. he might be a 'natural' goof with everyone around him. He could be flirting.. with many women.. just to see what happens. If I were you, I would either: Stop fooling around with him and see how it goes or Ask him out... no beating around the bush.. then you'll know once and for all if you need to move on or if he was just too 'dumb-shy' to ask you out..
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