LOVE DAISIES Posted March 11, 2008 Posted March 11, 2008 It's annoying truth be told. He knows I'm going to have some medical tests done next week...so he sends me a short email.. "I'll be thinking of you next week"... I I KNOW it's just bait to get me enagaged with him, but he KNOWS why I am not talking to him. How come they do this?? When we are doing this for US...and not at their beck and call they HAVE to play manipulating games. I am sick of it!! I am more likely to send him a scathing reply than anything. Would silence be better in this case? Thanks..
whichwayisup Posted March 11, 2008 Posted March 11, 2008 Because he doesn't respect your wishes for NC. He is weak, he is contacting you in hopes you'll give into him. The dramatic rollercoaster ride has come to an end and he's probably missing the attention which another reason why he's contacted you. (He does care about you, obviously, wants you to be OK...But don't reply back, whatever you do.) Silence says it all. Don't reply back!!
Author LOVE DAISIES Posted March 11, 2008 Author Posted March 11, 2008 Thx WWIU. I have been through this with him SO many times, and I am just tired of it. I want to say.."GO BE WITH YOUR WIFE, IT'S OBVIOUSLY WHERE YOU WANT TO BE, SO LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!" There..that felt better..LOL. Anyway...just venting..
HeatherK08 Posted March 13, 2008 Posted March 13, 2008 Thx WWIU. I have been through this with him SO many times, and I am just tired of it. I want to say.."GO BE WITH YOUR WIFE, IT'S OBVIOUSLY WHERE YOU WANT TO BE, SO LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!" There..that felt better..LOL. Anyway...just venting.. How are you doing?
whichwayisup Posted March 13, 2008 Posted March 13, 2008 I want to say.."GO BE WITH YOUR WIFE, IT'S OBVIOUSLY WHERE YOU WANT TO BE, SO LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!" There..that felt better..LOL. So...Say just that to him and tell him to leave you alone.
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