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Plain and simple - I've got an X who just keeps up the flirting after we have broken up now for 3 months. I want to keep as a friend because that is what we were best at which both parties agree.

 

Might I add that I only get this flirting via - IM as he is now in another city and we have not seen each other in months since the breakup. And when he flirts on IM I just change subject and never flirt back - but he just keeps on making suggestions.

 

Should I just cut ties or wait till the flirting stops?

 

lost little girl :(

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You could try an inbetween option -

Next time he does it:

Ask - why do you keep flirting with me? We agreed to be just friends, and it's inappropriate - I'd appreciate it if you stopped.

 

If he continues, then you can choose to cut ties or not.

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I should be laying down the law and taking control - Thanks for the advice!

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page, you should be laying down the law. right now he's just playing games with your head!

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