sgf310 Posted March 10, 2008 Posted March 10, 2008 I need some help with this girl I've met at work. I really enjoy being around her. She's sweet, funny and pretty. Everything I need in a girl. We went out on a date a while ago and had a great time. Through a series of unfortunate events, our schedules conflict and haven't gone on a second date since then. However, I often see her around campus and walk with her to her classes. At work we flirt a lot with each other, whether we're right next to each other or making eye contact and smiling to the other across the room. When we work together and our shifts overlap we take our break when the other person leaves so we can walk them out. And we talk nightly for hours. She knows I have feelings for her, and she said she has them for me. We're not dating but merely testing the waters to make sure we’re right for each other. It seems like everything is going good... WRONG! Here's my dilemma: I honestly have no idea how to move this "relationship" forward. This is the first time I've felt this clueless about a girl before. The most physical contact we get is hugging. No kissing and I've never even held her hand! It seems like I can never, ever figure out the right time to make a physical move with her... It just feels awkward for the BOTH of us. Awkward moments all around. Basically, what I'm trying to ask is how can I make us both seem comfortable to further this puppy-love relationship? What can I do to raise our comfort levels so that it just feels natural for the both of us?
Legend Posted March 10, 2008 Posted March 10, 2008 Man up, kiss her. Take her on a date. Don't ask, take. Tell her when and where, and if she cares she'll make time. Man so many guys these days are acting like women and hell we have women running for president.
xpaperxcutx Posted March 10, 2008 Posted March 10, 2008 Man up, kiss her. Take her on a date. Don't ask, take. Tell her when and where, and if she cares she'll make time. Man so many guys these days are acting like women and hell we have women running for president. To OP, you got to take the initiative. The girl is interested, but she's not going to make the first move. Take her on a date, and at the end of the night be the first one to hold her hands, and if she's receptive to you, seal it with a kiss.
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