themessenger Posted March 10, 2008 Posted March 10, 2008 is it possible that you can say something to somebody in the heat of a fight that is truly unforgivable. that they would never speak to you again? or do they just need time to cool?
rosebud6712 Posted March 10, 2008 Posted March 10, 2008 in the heat of the moment, things are said, and done, that may seem unforgivable at that moment, i believe in forgiving but never forgetting, just give it time to cool down.
Author themessenger Posted March 10, 2008 Author Posted March 10, 2008 wel its been a week since i've spoke to her she won't answer
rosebud6712 Posted March 10, 2008 Posted March 10, 2008 stop chasing her then, perhaps once you give up she may call you....
Author themessenger Posted March 10, 2008 Author Posted March 10, 2008 yeah we've been down this road before. i guess i just wanted to prevent another gap. we've gone months without talking before. i was pretty mean this time. i guess we'll see. i don't want to herass her.
Hoffle Posted March 10, 2008 Posted March 10, 2008 Is this the same girl in the other thread? If you've said hurtful things then the least you can do is allow the girl time to cool down, if she still wants to speak to you she'll get back in a contact with you.
Author themessenger Posted March 10, 2008 Author Posted March 10, 2008 yeah the time has come to let her cool. just wondered what other people thought about the power of words. i'm beginning to think maybe they can do more damage then i thought.
Hoffle Posted March 10, 2008 Posted March 10, 2008 Words can speak louder than actions in certain circumstances, but we all say things we don't mean at the spur of moment, the best thing you can do is just move on. What's said is said and what's done is done, beating yourself up about it won't change things. You need a good night out with plenty of drinks and plenty of friends.
Author themessenger Posted March 10, 2008 Author Posted March 10, 2008 ha thanx for the advice somehow that stuff doesn't help anymore. Last time we broke up i went to vegas and had a threesome. i only felt gross after that.
Hoffle Posted March 10, 2008 Posted March 10, 2008 That's down to your lack of self control my friend, a few beers with a few mates to take your mind off this girl doesn't have to result in a threesome in Vegas.
Star Gazer Posted March 10, 2008 Posted March 10, 2008 It really depends what was said. It would be helpful if you could provide some context here.
Author themessenger Posted March 10, 2008 Author Posted March 10, 2008 just hard to keep it that simple when shes off prbably doing whtever with him.
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