trevor_n Posted March 10, 2008 Posted March 10, 2008 (edited) hey guys wats up,last year november i finally summed up the courage to walk away rom a cheating girlfriend,the pain i experienced was unbeleivable,it seemed to come from another dimension,it was then that i vowed to myself to let go and let go for good and move to find sum1 more deserving. I changed my numbers and blacklisted her emails, its been 3 months of pure NC,not exactly smooth sailing,beacuse sometimes my i think about what she did and feel plain dejected and angry,sometimes i feel like i miss her..but my view is that there are a lot of women out there,and il fight my emotions to get through the pain and dissapontment to move on and date other women who are worthy of me. last month i get an email from her, she created another addres after she figured i had blacklisted her heres what she said "i needed someone to talk to.uve always been a good listener, i dont know ummm......" my reesponse a day later was "may i suggest you find someone else to talk to,you threw away the priviledge of being my friend and talking to me a long time ago,i hope you can find your way around watever may be troubling you wish u the best regards" i then proceeded to also blacklist this new address she had created. can those who understand the female physichy better than me tell me what she's getn at,or what she wants, Edited March 10, 2008 by trevor_n
mark982 Posted March 10, 2008 Posted March 10, 2008 trevor, i sure don't know what she wanted, but i did love your reply to her e-mail.that has to be a all time best. good luck
1975ville Posted March 10, 2008 Posted March 10, 2008 It would have been better to not reply at all. Silence is best. I did that back in 2000 and never looked back, it was for the best.
norajane Posted March 10, 2008 Posted March 10, 2008 "i needed someone to talk to.uve always been a good listener, i dont know ummm......" She was looking to find out if she still had you on the string. And/or, she knew you cared for her very much in the past and was looking for the ego boost of talking to you - something must have happened that had her wanting to be reminded of how great she is and she figured you might be up for the job of fawning all over her again.
Author trevor_n Posted March 12, 2008 Author Posted March 12, 2008 (edited) thanks norajane what nerve she has to try and do that,after the vile things she did,,some people really have no shame Edited March 12, 2008 by trevor_n
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