bob-o 1 Posted March 10, 2008 Posted March 10, 2008 my girlfriend of 3 years has been texting someone like crazy, and flirting with someone in an online game we play...and i'm sure that they are the same person. last weekend she left her phone at home and i looked at the text messages to ease my mind.....and i found several very unnerving texts involving grabing eachothers asses, and one that she didnt reply to on the phone that said "pulls you close and kisses you deeply, holding you tighter against my body and kisses deeper" I almost exploded at her when she got home, but decided to keep my cool and play it out. The rest of the weekend she constantly texted the bastard while we were driving around. I know it was him because she NEVER has kept her phone so close to her since she left it at home that day....and she is moving it away to make sure i don't see anything, AND she NEVER has texted anyone but me and maybe a couple other people during our relationship....Oh and by the way I woke up this morning and she was completely under the covers (never sleeps like that) and it was damn obvious she had her phone out in front of her, as i tried to pull off the covers and kiss her.........am i over reacting...is this all in my head i am just so pissed off right now i dont know what to do. Oh and she has also been going to her car to talk to this guy...and saying its one of her girl friends where she works (i checked her call log) I also know that this guy is in the Navy and is only on shoreleave for now as I have learned through the game.....I know this is probably confusing as hell, but this is basically just a rant and i need some advice... Thanks
amaysngrace Posted March 10, 2008 Posted March 10, 2008 I almost exploded at her when she got home, but decided to keep my cool and play it out. Keeping your cool isn't working for you right now because you're losing it in your head. When you calm down enough you should ask her about it. If she's lying to you then you need to set the record straight with her. You deserve honesty.
Bryanp Posted March 10, 2008 Posted March 10, 2008 If the roles were reversed do you think your girlfriend would not have said anything? What in the world are you waiting for? She is totally humiliating and disrespecting you and you say nothing? Are you going to wait until she meets him in person? By not saying anything you are enabling her to cheat on you which she is doing. No consequences to her actions equals no motivation to change. At this point she has no respect for you at all. If you do not respect yourself then who will? I am sorry but your none reaction is pathetic.
bex2008 Posted March 13, 2008 Posted March 13, 2008 By what you have put in your post I think she is cheating on you . You have to talk to her and ask her what the hell is going on. If it turns out she is cheating on you then you need to break it off with her and move on, you deserve better than this, she has not respect for you what so ever, believe me if she did respect you she wouldnt be doing this to you.
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