youngbuckkk Posted March 11, 2008 Posted March 11, 2008 I am continuing with NC.. Nearly 24 Hours!!! I have managed 3 days before, so this isn't new territory.. but i have to be strong.. She has told me time and time again, to give her space and i, ignored it.. this time i will give her the time and space and i will keep to my word of leaving her alone... Maybe after a couple of weeks, she'll miss me?! I'm new to this site and am now sometime over a month NC with my ex. For the first week I did the whole begging and pleading and kept asking myself "why me", but let me tell you that does no good. From what I am expereincing right now I must say that right now even though it is very early in the NC process the first step you need to take is accept the fact that she may not, and most likley will not, come back. I know how harsh this can sound, but you need to realize that you don't need anyone but yourself to make you happy in life, and you need to realize that there are millions of other great women out there who would probably blow this girl out of the water. It just takes time to heal. The longer you keep putting yourself through this by reopening the wound the longer you will be miserable. You need to do NC not to make her miss you, but to start to get over her. Do this for yourself, you will be a stronger man from it. It she comes back and that's what you want then good for ya, but you can't have the mindset that you are doing this to win her back. You cannot control her feelings, all you can do is be your own man, and learn to love yourself. As bad as things may seem, others have pulled through far worse, and time will only make things better. The darkest hour is only 60 minutes. Just gotta man up, love hurts.
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