route1 Posted March 9, 2008 Posted March 9, 2008 to everyone i suppose. i finished with ex a few months back we done the whole friends thing to keep each other in our lives. we are now in 3 weeks NC. she was seen in a dvd shop with her new guy. and boy it stung when i heard it. lol and before you guys shout and abuse me dont i am not going to do anything about it. just funny dont want her dont want any1 to have her. aw well upwards and onwards. has anyone felt that before this kinda thing before?
Roller EastCoaster Posted March 9, 2008 Posted March 9, 2008 Yes, Route1, i went through something similar... we broke up and a few months later i actually randomly ran into her with another guy (someone I had questioned her about previously)! It really stung because she claimed she needed space and time alone. I thought... wow I can't believe this is really happening to me? How could it? What did I do to deserve this? It really does sting, but let it. Its supposed to, just make sure you handle yourself well when reacting to it. But, please do let your feelings out... do not bottle them up. If you want to maintain NC, then tell your friends/family how you feel, write a letter to her but dont send it and after a few days or a week, then decide if you want to send it. NC will help to heal you as Im sure it already is. Take care of yourself this is a vital time for you! The reason it happened is beyond you and I, but the lessons it teaches you about yourself are numerous and powerful. So do what you got to do, and then observe what life has decided to teach u...
City_girl Posted March 9, 2008 Posted March 9, 2008 male ego She's moved on and you aren't the centre of her universe, must sting like mad
Author route1 Posted March 9, 2008 Author Posted March 9, 2008 thanks rollercoster u were very helpful. o city girl this is someone whom i had very special times with and breaking up was 1 of the hardest things i ever did in my life. i still have feelings for her just not enough to give her the future she deserves. so male ego?? dont think so. just hard seeing some you had many good times with share good times with some1 else. even tho i am happy she has found a we bit of happines. she really does deserve it. city girl maybe someday in my shoes you will understand
smoochie Posted March 9, 2008 Posted March 9, 2008 thanks rollercoster u were very helpful. o city girl this is someone whom i had very special times with and breaking up was 1 of the hardest things i ever did in my life. i still have feelings for her just not enough to give her the future she deserves. so male ego?? dont think so. just hard seeing some you had many good times with share good times with some1 else. even tho i am happy she has found a we bit of happines. she really does deserve it. city girl maybe someday in my shoes you will understand Route1...I have to agree with city girl. the way your post read, it does seem like more of an oge thing than anything else. I guess in your second post you seem like you broke with her so she could have better. Well, she is obviously doing better so its a good thing you can be happy for her.
Rich464 Posted March 10, 2008 Posted March 10, 2008 It depenes entirely on the circumstances on which you split. I was the 'dumper' (at least this time - she used to dump me to get her own way) because of the horrific way she treat me and for my own sanity but yeah, it hurts, it really hurts because I've still lost someone I loved even if i was the one making the difficult decision this time. so yeah, it depends WHY you dumped her I guess.
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