Sand&Water Posted March 9, 2008 Posted March 9, 2008 This is mind boggling. What would cause him to change his Relationship Status? Here is the run down. I have been having a wonderful time with a man for the last couple of months. The same man as in my last post:http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t146219/. He and I have grown quite close to each other, greatly and admirably as friends can be. I do understand the comment he made was almost entirely to show that he truly cares about me. And I am grateful for it, not only for this one comment, but everything including how he's been treating me. The other day, I was viewing his MySpace page and noticed that he changed his Relationship Status from "Single" to "Married". I was surprised, to say the least. I would have never expected such a change, marriage is a major deal. I am profoundly happy for him. BUT, I feel something is "Off" about this situation. Thoughts? I am not alone in thinking this is odd. Sand&Water
Lishy Posted March 9, 2008 Posted March 9, 2008 I am guessing that he is letting everyone know he is off limits! That is just my opinion though
sb129 Posted March 9, 2008 Posted March 9, 2008 Maybe it was a mistake and he meant to change it to "In a relationship" and clicked the wrong one. It happens sometimes with those drop-down menus.
OpenBook Posted March 9, 2008 Posted March 9, 2008 I have a horrible feeling he is about to spring some bad news on you...
konfuzd Posted March 9, 2008 Posted March 9, 2008 I know a few people who put their status to married because they think it's funny. Relationship status on networking sites is in no way official. I'd just leave a silly message like, "fun weekend in Vegas?" or something like that, to see that you noticed the change, but aren't all up in his face about it. See how he reacts.
Ariadne Posted March 9, 2008 Posted March 9, 2008 I was viewing his MySpace page and noticed that he changed his Relationship Status from "Single" to "Married". I was surprised, to say the least. Do you think he may be married?
SeraBella Posted March 9, 2008 Posted March 9, 2008 I know a few people who put their status to married because they think it's funny. Relationship status on networking sites is in no way official. I'd just leave a silly message like, "fun weekend in Vegas?" or something like that, to see that you noticed the change, but aren't all up in his face about it. See how he reacts. I agree with this.
Trialbyfire Posted March 9, 2008 Posted March 9, 2008 Did you two have some nookie? In current slang, being married means losing your virginity.
Author Sand&Water Posted March 10, 2008 Author Posted March 10, 2008 RE: I am guessing that he is letting everyone know he is off limits! That is just my opinion though Perhaps. But I doubt it. Everything seems to contradict itself. He is, last I heard, single and happy. The impression I received from him was that he is not searching for women to date. Sand&Water
Author Sand&Water Posted March 10, 2008 Author Posted March 10, 2008 RE: Maybe it was a mistake and he meant to change it to "In a relationship" and clicked the wrong one. It happens sometimes with those drop-down menus. I don't think he is "involved" with any woman. Stating that he is "Married" is much more dense than "In a Relationship". On the other hand maybe, just maybe, he is seeing a woman and it is getting serious. Truth be told though, he and I aren't dating at all, let alone exclusively. I don't know if by stating he is "Married" as a joke, or geared towards me or another woman. I am trying not to look too much into it. But he almost always contradicts himself. One day he'll say he is not interested in having a woman in his life, the next declaring he wants someone who will meet his standards and blow his mind away. Sand&Water
Author Sand&Water Posted March 10, 2008 Author Posted March 10, 2008 RE: Do you think he may be married? No. He is very much the independent type. I don't think I will ask him about it. No way. I don't want to stick my nose in his muddy goo love life. If he wants to, when the time is right, he will come forward and pronounce the news. Whether good or bad, I can handle it. The irony is he constantly makes it known to me that I'm perfect and I have set the standard for him -yet he makes it clear as the sun that a woman in his life at the moment will undoubtedly destroy his career, lifestyle and ambitions. Sand&Water
xpaperxcutx Posted March 10, 2008 Posted March 10, 2008 RE: No. He is very much the independent type. I don't think I will ask him about it. No way. I don't want to stick my nose in his muddy goo love life. If he wants to, when the time is right, he will come forward and pronounce the news. Whether good or bad, I can handle it. The irony is he constantly makes it known to me that I'm perfect and I have set the standard for him -yet he makes it clear as the sun that a woman in his life at the moment will undoubtedly destroy his career, lifestyle and ambitions. Sand&Water Sounds like someone who wants to tap a** rather than be in a emotional relationship with.
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