littletoes Posted March 8, 2008 Posted March 8, 2008 HI ladies and gents! my friends suggested this site for issues of the heart. I really need another opinion from a strangers point of view. MY bf of 2.5 years is acting little strange. He goes out with this co worker of his which is a male hopefully. Whenever I call him and hes out with him he never answers his phone and thats a red flag right there right. Now lets get to good stuff. He goes away for a business trip with this dude from work and he gives me reason to believe of his cheating heart because when ever I call he never answers, He said he would call during the week he called onence and the rest of the days he kepted giving me cell excuses. I believe him. Now let me say what if u see a hair on him and then u dont say anything them he makes a suggestion and turns around and says that its mine while that hair was light and my HAIR IS DARK IN COLOR. hE THEN GIVES ME ATTITUDE AND ASKS WHAT mY ISSUE IS. i KNOW HIS MOMS HAIR IS LGHT HE SAID IT COULD BE HIS MOMS OR IS THIS THE GULITYNESS OF HIM TRYING TO LET ME KNOW THAT THERE IS ANOTHER WOMEN INVOLVED. iM REALLY CONFUSED. i LOVE THIS GUY AND i REALLY WANT TO BE WITH HIM. i lOVE HIM im JUST NOT SURE WHAT TO DO PLEASE HELP ******* pLEASE KEEP IN MIND THAT THE HAIR SITUATION WAS WHEN HE GOT BACK FROM HIS TRIP*************** pLEASE HELP lOVE st
carhill Posted March 9, 2008 Posted March 9, 2008 Hey, don't talk to him for a month. That'll fix him. I assume you're not thriving on this drama. A good lesson to learn is that he'll be with you because he wants to be, not because of anything you do to "keep" him. Leave him alone and he'll be back if he wants to. Your power is not allowing him back without some conditions. You've mentioned a few things here that need fixing. See also: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t146451/
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