phoenixgirl Posted March 9, 2008 Posted March 9, 2008 bnb, it takes a lot of courage not only to have come through what you went through, but also to share it. I commend you for that. And I applaud anyone - including you, Reality - who has ever felt the teeth of "wanting to die" bite into their soul and got the help they needed to get through it. That takes real courage, too. You're not alone. You never have been.
bentnotbroken Posted March 9, 2008 Posted March 9, 2008 bnb, it takes a lot of courage not only to have come through what you went through, but also to share it. I commend you for that. And I applaud anyone - including you, Reality - who has ever felt the teeth of "wanting to die" bite into their soul and got the help they needed to get through it. That takes real courage, too. You're not alone. You never have been. Thanks, to God be the glory:).
Darth Vader Posted March 10, 2008 Posted March 10, 2008 Suicide is NO answer at all to any persons problems. Furthermore, it doesn't solve problems, it creates worse ones! Nothing is worth killing yourself over, Nothing! Take it from someone who knows!
nadiaj2727 Posted March 10, 2008 Posted March 10, 2008 Realitycheck, I am really sorry to hear that your wife cheated on you. That really sucks. It sounds from your posts that she is remorseful and willing to do whatever takes to save the marriage. That is a really good start. Some people here have successfully reconciled after infidelity -- Owl is a really good person to talk to as is Reboot (but I haven't seen Reboot around recently?) Both of their wives had affairs and they are reconciling or have reconciled. Have you gone to Surviving Infidelity? That is a really good resource and forum for marriages in which an affair has occurred. Best wishes to you Realitycheck.
MimiMe Posted March 10, 2008 Posted March 10, 2008 LSD, how are things in YOUR world - the one in which you moved 700 miles to your MW's town without even telling her about it, in hopes of winning her away from her H? Suicidal ideation is not something to go "WTF" about. Maybe YOU wouldn't respond this way to any given situation, but not everyone is like that. Some people just don't have adequate coping skills, or they have a chemical imbalance; and a situation like this may bring up these feelings even if they've never had them before. There's not a single person here - or anywhere - who is in a position to judge someone if they truly feel like they cannot cope. With *any* situation, not just a shattered A or M. Ditto! took the words out of my mouth.
MimiMe Posted March 10, 2008 Posted March 10, 2008 and Realitycheck... wish you luck and strenght baby, cause you are going to need it. Life is too short to spend it trapped in the dark room these kind of feelings put you in. And to end your life for someone that basically will live haunted by their mistakes, NOT WORTH IT! Life is precious! and there is nothing that "TIME" cant heal, but you have to grow strong to know where to draw the line.
bentnotbroken Posted March 11, 2008 Posted March 11, 2008 RC, you can do it. It is hard, but so worth it.
Author realitycheck1111 Posted March 29, 2008 Author Posted March 29, 2008 RC, you can do it. It is hard, but so worth it. It is hard, but I have finally getting thru it, and boy oh boy do i feel alot better! Thanks everyone for your help.
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