Rowen Posted March 8, 2008 Posted March 8, 2008 (edited) Ive been seeing this girl for about two weeks now. HUng out about 5 times now I think. ANyway, she is apperently hung up on this guy that doesn't really like her and she talks about it and is frustrated about it all the time. But she seems to have a good time hanging out with me. SHe gets close to me.. puts her arm around my arm walking. Then lastnight we watched a movie at my house, she got quite close, ended up falling aslsep with her head on my shoulder. She put her bare legs against my hand .. so I didn't move them, infact I kindafiddled with her socks and feet which she didn't have a problem with or anything I guess since she didnt move for 45 minutes or make a comment. Now I told her I like her openly about 6 days ago knowing full well she has feelings for this other guy, it was ok. SHe said she was glad I told her. And she continues to want to hang out with me. Also that guy she's hung up on is very sketchy to me.. he randomly ran off to las vegas for a month to work... And I just told the girl im seeing to be carefull and that he seems to be a bit off from my vantage point. He told her he stopped drinking, and he can do it at the drop of a hat.. was in a gang.. blah blah etc. really sketchy. And she's constnatly making commetns about how frustrated she is with guys becuase she does't know if they like her ot not beucase they don't make moves. And I just said "well maybe they respect you enough to not" Ugh.. it's just a confusing situation. I'm just glad I let her know I like her and showed it a bit. THe ball is in her court I guess. Becuase I certantly am not going to ask her out while she is still so hung up on this guy........or should i? Edited March 8, 2008 by Rowen
SoStupid Posted March 8, 2008 Posted March 8, 2008 Becuase I certantly am not going to ask her out while she is still so hung up on this guy........or should i? STICK WITH YOUR GUT!
xpaperxcutx Posted March 8, 2008 Posted March 8, 2008 Right now the only thing you can offer her is your friendship. Pursuing any further would be a lack in judgment, because she doesn't see you as anything more than such and also because her mind's more focused on the other guy. When a girl is attracted to someone, they're practically oblivious of other people who might like them. She's comfortable being with you, but until the other guy's out of the picture, don't get so hung up on her yourself.
Author Rowen Posted March 8, 2008 Author Posted March 8, 2008 Right now the only thing you can offer her is your friendship. Pursuing any further would be a lack in judgment, because she doesn't see you as anything more than such and also because her mind's more focused on the other guy. When a girl is attracted to someone, they're practically oblivious of other people who might like them. She's comfortable being with you, but until the other guy's out of the picture, don't get so hung up on her yourself. Very solid advice. Thank you.
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