kawanoakane Posted March 8, 2008 Posted March 8, 2008 Hi, I'm almost 18 years old and I'm with my boyfriend who is 2 years older than me for two and a half years together. I love him a lot. But thing is that i miss him when he's not here, but when we talk, i always get irritated somehow by the way he answers and the things he says. I'm not interested in his stories and neither is he..i think. When we're together, it also not that great fun. But that doesn't mean that its like this all the time. I feel like he is not valuing me enough, and nor do i... Sex with him is also not great. I used to get all excited but now i barely want to do it. It hurts, its not romantic at all and i have never orgasmed by having sex... GOD...what does this mean... Somewhere in my head i know that we're not staying together for much longer than a year or so...and im not really satisfied with my relationship and i want more. I want my relationship to be more cute and romantic. But telling him this will make him say that i find problems out of no where cause i'm too dramatic... Please tell me what to do...shoud i cut it off just like that, or continue for how much it can last..?? This is my first boyfriend and real love. So im not experienced at ALL.. If someone has something, advice, anything, please tel me! A
Geishawhelk Posted March 8, 2008 Posted March 8, 2008 I'm almost 18 years old and I'm with my boyfriend who is 2 years older than me for two and a half years together. Since you were 16 - ! You're still so young!! when we talk, i always get irritated somehow by the way he answers and the things he says. I'm not interested in his stories This sounds good, doesn't it? You're only 18 and already you're bored...? When we're together, it also not that great fun. Sounds like a recipe for disaster.... I feel like he is not valuing me enough, You feel...? then you're probably right.... Sex with him.....hurts, its not romantic ...and i have never orgasmed by having sex... GOD...what does this mean... It shouldn't hurt, and if it's not what you want, or the way you want it, then you shouldn't be doing it. Somewhere in my head i know that we're not staying together for much longer No 'sheet' Sherlock....! im not really satisfied with my relationship and i want more. First of all you are far too young to be thinking of a LT relationship, and secondly, you have both outgrown this one, big time. Please tell me what to do... This is my first boyfriend and real love. So im not experienced at ALL..[/QUOTE] Say bye bye!!
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