DayDreamer75 Posted March 8, 2008 Posted March 8, 2008 As I indicated in my previous post, we'd been together for many many years living together. About 2 months ago we separated for approximately 3 weeks because I felt neglected and not loved enough. Then suddenly he came around and told me how much he loved me. He did not say any words of sorry but he's changed a lot. He's doing a lot of things he never did before or did very little. Cooking for me, taking me out, listening to my needs, talking a lot, but my heart seems kind of empty... I don't know how to explain this feeling. I had initiated the separation. He searched for me. He changed. We are back together now... It's so much better...almost perfect... yet my passion is gone... I do love him... I miss making love to him... But I don't want to be touched by him... There's something inside me that is just killing me at the thought of being touched by him. it's not physical, don't get me wrong... He's a very handsome man. Yet, I have this constant feeling of hoping that he will not want to make love to me...while on another hand I miss the passion... What's happening with me? Am I still not ready? Am I still feeling hurt? Where has all the passion disappeared? Can it be brought back? Can this change? Thanks
Lovelybird Posted March 8, 2008 Posted March 8, 2008 (edited) Yes, you are still hurting, and resenting him. You have to think very well where you still resent him, and be true to yourself and him. If you fear to confront him about those issues bother you, it is natually you cannot feel intimate with him and cannot have sex with him. Are you married? maybe you tried to compromise something that was so against your will, and now you don't want to be this way anymore; maybe you don't feel have any love can give anymore? maybe seperation for a while is good, and give yourself some rest and restore yourself to a better place, then both of you can have a more clear picture Edited March 8, 2008 by Lovelybird
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