LOTSOFLOVE Posted July 6, 2003 Posted July 6, 2003 PLEASE HELP IM A 45 YEAR OLD MAN LIVING IN SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA IN THE LAST FEW YEARS I HAVE TRIED JUST ABOUT EVERYTHING TO FIND A MATE, INTERNET DATING SITES,EXPENSIVE DATING SERVICES,CHAT PHONE NUMBERS NOTHING HAS WORKED IM SHORT AND OVERWEIGHT BECAUSE OF MEDICATION ALL MY FRIENDS THINK I AM SUCH A WONDERFULL PERSON AND A SWEET GUY I AM VERY ROMANTIC, PASSIONATE ,AFFECTIONATE WHY CANT I FIND A WOMAN TO LOVE THANK YOU FOR YOUR HELP
zman Posted July 8, 2003 Posted July 8, 2003 I'm not a woman, and I don't play one on tv either. But... You should be able to find someone, provided that you are looking for someone in your own age range, with a similar body type and looks. If you're having trouble, maybe your expectations are too high in the looks department, or some other department.
dzynr Posted July 8, 2003 Posted July 8, 2003 Start enjoying life for life's sake. Learn to have fun by yourself. Women are attracted to someone who "brings the party with them", i.e. has fun regardless of being with someone or not. Don't keep looking for women. The right one will find you.
zman Posted July 8, 2003 Posted July 8, 2003 Also, don't try to be too "nice" all the time. Joke around, and tease women once in a while, in a funny way. They love this and it shows you are confident, funny, at ease and not afraid. If you are always nice and wussy, you come across as not being man enough. It's ok to be a man.
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