Theorem Posted March 7, 2008 Posted March 7, 2008 Ok well...lets make this simple. I havent talked to my EX for weeks busy with things and her BF etc. We were apparently friends for a while now i just havent talked to her in a while. But today i got the most RANDOM message, and i had no idea where all this crap came from...i was lost as hell. her: "i thought i knew you, but i dont. I shoulda known better etc" me: um ok? im not sure whats going on, so your mad at me? her: **expplains something about "me" saying her sister was adorable on AIM** me: um...i think your taking that out of context. i teased her about waiting for her BF for hours all night online...whats wrong with that? her: youve always flirted with her etc im not jealous either, your typical, if you slept with a girl you wouldnt even tell me would you? *yes exact words* me: well im not sure what to tell you but id think youd believe me or give me benefit of the doubt... her: your always clueless, MEN PFFT! and it just dwindled down from there...mind you this is very accurate. ALL i want to know here is...what you think is really her problem? I was having a great day. And i get this TEXT message from her after not talking to her in a while. So im guessing she saw her SISTERS aim log and read that. Like i said it wasnt pervasive in the least either unless taken out of context anyways. is just PMSing? shes done this before, called me a coward once (long ago but situation feels similar in the sense of as if there was a resentment beyond the situation), she then apologized a week later since she doesnt even know why she said it *PMS* or bipolar, maybe it is my fault...who knows?...the womans mind has me lost but curious of its inner workings. Offer me some real insight on the subject its weird to have someone personally attack you for what feels to me NO REASON at all, i realise its about her sister but i honestly didnt do anything other than joke with her...this seems like a real huge over reaction. or is this just normal EX girlfriend stuff? __________________
Author Theorem Posted March 7, 2008 Author Posted March 7, 2008 also, i am planning to talk to her...if its possible to salvage this friendship then i want to know how to approach these feelings. Otherwise i may have to just stop talking to her as she just isnt around often enough as a friend to warrant all the stress i get from it. It doesnt feel like a complementary relationship sometimes. quite the opposite as time passes
xpaperxcutx Posted March 7, 2008 Posted March 7, 2008 Sounds like hormones talking but I could be wrong... hmmm does she have obsessive- compulsive traits? She sounds like an ex who doesn't want to be with you but doesnt anyone to have you that kind of person. Lol Sounds also like jealousy, especially if she thinks that you have a thing with her sister.
carhill Posted March 7, 2008 Posted March 7, 2008 OP, do you have any cogent reason to stay in contact with your X? If no, then just ignore any contacts by her. Nothing you type or say will ever elicit the response you wish
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