Jump to content
While the thread author can add an update and reopen discussion, this thread was last posted in over a month ago. Want to continue the conversation? Feel free to start a new thread instead!

Recommended Posts

Posted

So it wasn't an official relationship, but I still need healing so I'm here. This girl was one of my best friends for the last few years, and today I finally told her how I felt and got rejected. Basically I feel like she lead me on worse than any girl has ever let a guy on. She'd complain about her boyfriend almost always and I've never heard her say a single good thing about him. When we'd hang out, she'd still keep up the cuddling/physical stuff, even despite this 6-month relationship. Now, I've never been an a**hole to her, and I'm sure that's part of the reason I got rejected, but I feel like the situation warrants it.

 

I guess I have no option but to move on. Even if anything were possible to happen between us, it wouldn't until I get myself out there and start seeing other people. So, do I write her some final bitter, angry "you'll regret this" letter, or do I just stop talking to her and move on? I still want to make her realize what she's missing by not being with me, even if I don't think a letter would prove that. Also, any ideas for said letter would be much appreciated, haha.

Posted

NO. Don't do it. Pretty much anything you write at this point will come across as psycho. Just don't do anything unless you don't mind her thinking that you are bitter and weird.

Posted

By the way what did she actually say once you told her about your feelings?

  • Author
Posted

Well, the worst part is that I didn't even really get a chance to. She knew I wanted to talk, and then over the phone she asked what about and I had no choice but to say I wanted to talk about "us". By the time I was there she pretty much had an idea what I wanted to say, and asked if it what she thought it was. I said it probably was, and she seemed shocked. She said she was shaking. She basically told me that I was her best friend, but she never saw me any other way, and didn't ever think that I thought the same way for her. And she just kept apologizing as I told her how I thought she had feelings for me with the physical-ness and the attention, and all the bad things she says about her boyfriend (although she insists she would've given me the same response, bf or not). I dunno, she seemed incredibly confused and saddened, but was very steadfast in that she didn't really the same way back towards me. I guess she started crying after I left...

×
×
  • Create New...