jefferino Posted March 6, 2008 Posted March 6, 2008 So, I was with this girl for 3 1/2 years. We broke up obviously, went through many hard times, and it ended pretty rough. Had a few brief 'sexual' no-no's, shortly after that, it fizzled. Well, in the last few weeks, I have attempted contact, and her response has been rather lack-luster. However, in the midst of all of it, she's called me numerous times, asking if I want a scanner, or want to buy a cell phone from her. Little random things. And a few days ago, she sends me an email with her new number. Im in the heart of mixed signal city. Any opinions? Of course I still care for her...but something gives me the impression that if she was with someone new, or completely moved on, she would be indifferent wether I had her new number or not. HELP!
jinx55 Posted March 6, 2008 Posted March 6, 2008 If you are interesed in her then take it slow with her, she might not trust you anymore or have the same feelings but it seems she would be willing to give you a chance if you took it slow. Maybe meet her for lunch somewhere or something casual not like an actual date. That way you guys can talk, but remember if you really want her back she has to feel like you have changed (it doesnt matter who broke up with who). Don't pester her with calls either just like I said before take it slow and give it time, I envy you as my girlfriend won't even talk to me and we were together for 5 years. Do what you have to do but just be patient and if she really sent you her new number that is a great sign, but treat that sign with respect.
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