Thom Posted March 6, 2008 Posted March 6, 2008 Hi all...I just found this site. Seems like exactly what I am looking for. Anyway...I'll try to keep this short and sweet. I've been dating this woman since early December. I have strong feelings for her. And she has stated that she has strong feelings for me as well. But she does this weird thing where she'll send me text messages or emails that say she "misses me", "when will I see you" this that and the other thing. And then when we spend time together she'll tell me she needs space. Now granted I totally understand that. We all need a little "me" time. But we barley ever see each other. Maybe one or two days out of the week. Also, for what it is worth...she has admitted to having a rather shady/slutty past. She has admitted to have slept around. But says she has left that life behind her. She is also in therapy for whatever personality disorders she has. I am not an insecure person, but I feel like she is just toying with me. She has told me that she takes pride in being loyal. And she comes across as having lots of integrity. But if she tells me she needs space...I say ok..then we won't talk for days on end. That tells me that I don't mean anything to her. She makes no effort to connect with me. I'm thinking I need to end it. Even if she has told me she loves me. I really don't know what to make of this situation. Any opinions?
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