Should I care or be worried?

[jinx55]

Recently me and my ex broke up. We were together for almost 5 years. Our breakup was almost a month ago, but I soon found from one of her friends she is dating this new guy. Should I be concerned that this is serious or just a rebound. Have any of you ever had this experience and if so what ended up happening? I still do love this girl and would take her back.

[Phateless]

Move on bro. I went through the same thing. My ex was dating someone new within two weeks, and it's the guy she liked me when she broke up with me. She even told me during the breakup that she liked him. 1.5 years later I think they're still together.

 

Her breaking up with me was the best thing that ever happened to me. She moved on. So should you.

[tonyeltiger]

It sucks man. My ex did the same thing. We were together for 4 years. Now she is with a new guy, seemingly happy, I dunno, shouldn't really care. The bare facts is that she left you, obviously for this other guy. I understand the feeling of loving someone even after this, but try to come to grips that whether she stays with him or not, you were 2nd in her book. DO you really want to be with someone that has that little respect for you? Whatever you do, go NC. Don't talk to her AT ALL. Nothing you do matters now. She has moved on, as sad as it is. The only thing that will bring her back is if she misses you, and if you are still tlking or anything, there's nothing to miss. If she doesn't come back, you are better off, because she then would obviously no longer love you.

[prisonbreak]

Should you be worried?...No. The 2 of you are broken up. I'd be worried only if you 2 were together. Now, with that being said, rebounds don't have a very high sucess rate, but even if she were alone, doesn't mean she'd be back with you. If you want her back, try to figure out was broken and see if that can be fixed. Good luck!