annie77 Posted March 5, 2008 Posted March 5, 2008 This is about the guy from the gym I've been hanging out with for the past month. I've posted about him before and received some great advice, and I was doing pretty good, but unfortunately I screwed up again. Like I've said before, we've hung out about 5 times and he just stopped calling. It's been over 2 weeks since I've gotten a phone call, but I've also been good at not calling. But we do run into each other 3-4x a week. And when we do see each other, we have good conversations, he still smiles, is very interested in what I have to say, still flirts, just acts like the great guy I met to begin with. Our very 1st "date" or hang out was when I ordered a PPV even on TV and invited a bunch of friends over and that's when I invited him. We all had a great time. Well, the next event was this past Saturday. And guess what I did last week when I saw him? Yep, I invited him to see this one too. We were just having a conversation about it and I just invited him. He seemed excited and accepted. I told him to bring his friend since we were trying to hook his friend up with mine (she was coming too). So Saturday night comes around. My friend and I made dinner, the boys came over and it was a great night, we all had an awesome time watching the event, ate, drank, laughed all night, just had a lot of fun. Here's where I made a huge mistake... my friend left with his friend to go to the store and my dumb ass ended up sleeping with him again. When they got back, we all watched a movie, talked some more. My friend ended up leaving a few hours later, his friend passed out on my couch and he went into my room and passed out on my bed. Next morning, we all get up, hang in the living room, watch some TV, just relaxed and talked for a while and they decided it was time to head home. As he was leaving, he looked at me with this "I want you" kind of look and just said "mmmmmm", he gave me a hug, his friend got up, walked to the door, he gave me a hug again, and I kissed him on the cheek and that was it. Still haven't heard from him. I expected that though. So here's where things will start to change. I HAVE been good at not calling, it's been a couple weeks, but I guess inviting him broke that. As of Monday, I've changed my schedule so I don't have to run into him anymore. I am getting up at 5am now just so I can avoid seeing him. I'm on day 3 technically and already this schedule change sucks! I hate that I have to do this because of this situation when I had been going there at the same time for the past 2 years, before he even started going there. He won't receive any phone calls from me, he won't see my face anymore, I will just disappear. And if he even thought of me as a friend, because we've been talking for 4 months or so before we even slept together, then he will notice my disappearance and eventually contact me just to even see where I've been or how I'm doing. I think that after a while, this will catch his attention, as he is used to seeing me so much, and he will contact me if he was even concerned as a friend. If not, then I'll know he thinks of me as trash.
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